I know, right; you women want a project. Then why do you all say the same thing? "He should be nice/polite/romantic", etc. That guy that you cry to when your bad-a$$ boyfriend cheats on you or breaks up with you, that's the guy that you should be dating and you probably know it, and he wants to date you, believe me. So what can a nice guy do (and don't just say, "be confident, nice," etc. We've tried that to the best of our ability) to earn the love of a beautiful woman?
2007-01-06 15:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by Cougar_SRC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All of these biatches are lying to you straight out. Any woman that tells you she wants a nice guy is just plain delusional. It's ingrained in their screwed up brain. They love guys who treat them like crap. It's true. They do not like some nice guy. They will do anything they can to please a guy who treats them like sh*it. It's true. It's a fact of life, and you'll have to grow some balls and be a jerk to women if you want them.
When they say they want a "confident" man, that means they want an a*sshole. Be a "confident" guy and you'll be fine.
2007-01-06 16:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok man, I know you arent going to want to hear this, but I am going to tell you anyways. I am somewhat what you would call a "nice guy" so know I say this from experience. In mosy cases, nice guys are baf news, plain and simple. Everything has a balance, you can't have everything. Nice guys are usually unattractive physically, dont hold well paying jobs, and are not experienced enough to please a woman, (both physically and mentally). Now I'm not saying that a nice guy can't have these, but these are just associated with a nice guy. Now, you wonder then, "why do girls go for the bad guys" right? The reason is simple. They are able to provide for their women. Although they can be the worst assholes in the world, they bring in money, look good, and know how to handle women, even if it is extreme. What you have to do as a nice guy is to stop complaining about being nice and look at what it is that you are lacking and do something about it. I am a good example of this. While im not an extreme case, i can say that just looking at things in a different way can have some major effects. If you want to talk more about it if you arre willing, just email me. I'm open to talking about anything.
2007-01-07 00:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by lonely_wolf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, with me i want a nice, caring and romantic guy, but i also want a thug, a tough guy. And i'm not saying a drug dealer or anything but women like tough men i don' know why we do but we do. No one, well i don't want a man thats always nice and etc, it gets annoying. And far as the cheating and going on hey it happens, i don't believe their isn't one person that hasn't cheated. I think everyone cheats at least once n their lifetime.
2007-01-07 00:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by ejfefe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nice guys are great, but you have to have a backbone too. Personally I love the sweet things my boyfriend does for me but I don't want to feel like he is too dependent or needy. Nice guys are great, but you need to know how to balance the two. Don't be a doormat while being the "nice guy". But, if this is way out of your character don't change for anyone, cheesy but true.
2007-01-06 23:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by yardbird_24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i will admit that i can be that way. i tend to run the other way once i think a guy likes me too much. i am hoping i will grow out of that though. as for older women, uhhhhhh that is just immature, and you should be tracking down the ones that arent like that, believe me they are out there.
2007-01-07 00:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i want a nice guy..looks are priority and if they dont have a nice personality then they're not good for me but if they do they're always good in the beginning then later...well u know the story, its not like we look for someone to hurt us, plus some women cheat to!!
2007-01-06 23:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋