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Question

What do you (as a man) look for in a woman? I want the truth and that only. If looks ARE important to you...what EXACTLY do find important? Example: bigger 'ahem'? pretty face? toothpick for a woman or a little bit of fat? etc.
Reason I am asking is because I am a cute/pretty girl, NOT beautiful or gorgeous, I have brains, great job, own place etc and I never seem to get a second date with anyone. Help me out guys!!

I'll try to describe myself as best I can. Chin length brown/auburn hair, prominent facial features, hazel eyes, athletes body, proportionate all around. 36 C, ive got hips, good legs. Not skinny, but not Big either. I believe in health, not being a stick! One flaw..I have a small gap between my two front teeth, it shows when I smile. Personality: happy-go-lucky, witty, caring, gentle, easily amused, spontaneous or laid back.
I work full time in health care, have my own place, excellent family that I value, great dog etc. Perhaps that would help.

Lol!! Okay...one LAST thing.. I am ALL natural. I don't believe in hair dye, fake nails, fake boobs, fake plastic makeup or anything else that I wasn't born with. I'll wear a little lipstick on New Years Eve, otherwise, you won't see me grocery shopping in high heels and miniskirt! Lord knows, I see alot of that here!!

Answer 1

Here is the thing. Looks aren't everything, but they are a barometer. I look to see if the woman "makes the effort" to look pretty. Does she dress stylish? Does she do her hair nice? Does she make some sort of an attempt to look pretty? Does she cook and clean? (hey - what guy WOULDN'T like that!) The Looks do tell me about the woman's self-esteem.

You sound terrific. I'm shocked you aren't geting second dates. Good luck!

Answer 2

The most unattractive thing is being overweight. If you are slightly overweight, then in time you will probably be grossly overweight. The 2nd most unattractive is being grossly underweight. Corpse brides are definitely a turn off. After the weight comes the face. Reasonably attractive is ok. Unattractive is not ok. Supermodel is not necessary. Of course, it's pretty much impossible to quantify or formulate what's attractive and what's not, so I'll have to leave it there. But there is something else about the face that I look for. The best way to put it is I am looking for toxcicity - trying to read if you are the type of poisonous person who would screw me over. If I decide you're not, that makes up for a lot of physical deficiencies. After that comes the personality part - compatibility, likes,dislikes and whether or not we could get along. As for the rest of the physique - chest size, legs, butt - I really don't care. Hope that helps a little.

Answer 3

You sound like you got the package I am looking for. He are some hints read the sport section once and a while, know the top five teams in college basketball and pick one to be a fan of. Hope they go to the final four and you will look like a genius.

Know a little bit about stocks and the market.

Now as for body, I like a woman about 5ft 7in, shoulder length hair (color not important), about 120-145, with a womanly shape I would like nice boobs but not a pre-req, nice solid nails not long and red.

I like make-up but not a lot, in fact I love the morning look. Or the one just out of the shower.

I hope this helps

Answer 4

Firstly a girl who has a pretty face attracts me. Usually normal weight, not obese nor skinny. After that comes personality and intelligence with things in common.

Answer 5

i have to tell u somethin
if u look for it (date), u'll never find it
if u ignore it , it will find u.
and for the look
boobs absolutely catchy
alil bit of junk in the trunk wont hurt any one.
and the most important thing is a body full of emotions.

Answer 6

Great legs? A must!

Answer 7

a good personality