my girlfriend for almost 7 months now asked me if she could sleep with a nother girl anygirl i told her no because i love her and i cant handle her being with anyone but me she says she loves me and she said she wanted to marry me but she wants "one night of fun"
what should i do
2007-01-06 15:26:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a guy straight she says shes bi
2007-01-06 16:27:21 · update #1
As long as you are uncomfortable with her being with someone else you should stick to your standards. If she needs to explore, or have "one night of fun" she needs to make sure she takes your feelings in account.
2007-01-06 15:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by RantingLover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her go. But if you really don't like what she is going to do and how her thought process moves, you should explain to her that you may re think about marriage AFTER she comes back.
Who knows she may like what she got and decides to be a lesbian or she may want to be a bi which you may not like.
But one thing is for sure. If you stop her now, she may eventually do and never tell you. Better be a good friend and remain as one than get into deceiving and all that nonsense.
2007-01-06 23:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Josephene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, you'd be surprised of how many times a girl has left her fiance at the altar for a woman...I mean, I've heard that some girls just get curious...but I'm not sure...You seem to care about her alot though, so try to be honest. Good luck!
2007-01-06 23:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Oblivious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel strongly about it tell her no. If she's that hung up on macking on a chick then she might be lez, but if she really just wants the experience suggest a threesom. Even with rules she makes so both of you are comfortable. Then it's not cheating, it's just a fun experience for both of you.
2007-01-06 23:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by BAMF* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right in this situation. I know a lot of guys think it would be cool. But I KNOW it leads to more problems. This may not be the right girl for you because neither of you will be happy sexually. Not that you aren't doing a good job, but you should be more compatible.
2007-01-06 23:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by freshlybakedj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well basically thats nasty but if she wants to have fun let
her!!!
only if you guys dont get to have fun let her see what it feels
like to have a lil bit of fun but you should give it some hard thought
because if you see her looking at other guys thats tells you that
she might cheat on you or see that girl a cople of times if they have to much fun cause iam a girl i know all about us but one thing iam not gay i dont sleep wit girls cause thats nasty!!!!
that shows she might be bi lez or gay
or just ask her if you can have one night of fun wit a girl and she what the hell she feels like but yeah give it hard thought and good luck!!!!!!!
2007-01-06 23:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by alana_is_sexy!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not. She needs to be faithful. She doesnt want you 2 go sleep with another guy/girl does she?? If so this is not a commited relationship.
2007-01-06 23:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by so sophisticated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go have fun bro that gal sounds like a keeper do it now or wonder in ten years when you are married. the what if ???
2007-01-06 23:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by wildcat30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of four things can happen is that you say no and she does it any way,you say yes and like it and wants to go gay,you say yes if you can watch and you have a good time,or she does it and don't like it and you go on with your life.
2007-01-06 23:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable explain that to her, if she does not respect your boundaries then you should think about what that means and how worth while this relationship is to you.
2007-01-06 23:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by Tara H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋