I started dating this guy 3 years ago,we live together i have 6 children 4 in college that lives in their dorm and 2 that live at home.Their ages are 15&16 this guy brought a beautiful 3 story home for us we all have lived together for a year.We all get alone so well he love my children.He brought me an engagement ring in july2006 and he wants to marry me in vegas on my birthday april 2007.What do you guys think!
2007-01-06 15:24:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would say that life's too short not to have fun. Go for it. He sounds like a keeper.
2007-01-06 15:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by beaner 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So where's the problem?!?!
There's not one thing in the details of your questions that sounds like there's a problem, so why are you acting hesitant?
Is it him, or the left over baggage from your last marriage?
(I am guessing about a previous marriage because of kids 15 & 16, & more in college, & you have only dated this guy for 5 years).
If I am right, & you are once burned, & twice shy because of what went on in your previous relationships you need to lose the emotional baggage, or it will poison your future with this latest guy.
I hope you can do it, & do it fast because this guy sounds like a winner. Here is a great chance at some happiness in your life, so go for it.
2007-01-06 23:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Like a wonderful man....... go for it .......I'm married to the man I've known since I was 5 years old I don't think I could manage life without him we've been married for 12 years now
2007-01-06 23:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it you have history and frend ship and if you two yougest kids like him then go a head. you should always follow your heart. so i don,t see why not unless you don,t what to get marry on your birthday xsept maybe it,s not a good idea to get marryed on your birthday because when it,s your birthday you guys would have to exstange gifts on your birthday, so yes marry the man but i don,t thing you should marry on your birthday because that day is your day and it should be talking a bout your special day you were born so don,t marry on your birthday, but some time like early may.
2007-01-06 23:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It appears this guy cares for you and your children. I think the question is: Is this the person you truly love and want to spend your life with. Good luck
2007-01-06 23:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jan C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is your issue---are you waiting for everyone to say do it or don't do it. It is how you feel that's important---you already have a lot of kids and everything else--what could possibly be next???
2007-01-06 23:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself "Do I love him?". If you can honestly say "Yes" then go for it. If not then don't. Keep looking for Mr. Right. I think it's great that he loves your kids but does he love you and do you love him?
2007-01-06 23:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by lifeishard1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would :P
Well you've known the guy for a lond time talk to the ppl closest to you. Talk to him
2007-01-06 23:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is there four of the same questions out there?
2007-01-06 23:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by sandy25527 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you.Go for it.Good guys are hard to find.Marry the guy.
2007-01-06 23:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by cuddingtbone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋