This guy moved in next to my house a couple weeks ago, and he is so sexy. He has a really deep male voice, and he drives a Ford F150, and he's really manly and I found out that he's gay. How is that even possible? A gay guy who acts like a straight guy? Don't most gay guys wear pink shirts and tight leather pants, and have one of those lisp things or girly voices or whatever its called?
He even has a guy living with him and he's just as manly. OMG how is that possible? I never would have thought that he was gay. It's so weird.
2007-01-06 15:21:07 · 13 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just might not like you.
2007-01-07 09:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by ♥noey♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your house under a rock, because that seems like where you have been living if you think gay men only wear pink and tight leather pants! In fact, none of my gay friends would wear tight leather pants EVER!
You need to ditch the stereotype. Is every single straight girl EXACTLY like you? Do they talk the same, dress the same, look the same, ect? Get real and get out a little.
How someone dresses, what they drive, how they talk, ect isn't a way to tell who they are, their inner personality, ect. So don't be so quick to judge. A "lisp thing"???? What is that?! Thank goodness not all men see/hear you and think that all of us who are straight girls are like you.
2007-01-06 15:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by amyo4190 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get your head out of the sand and smell the coffee or the roses. you can not be that naive
about the world today about strait or gay
guys. Some of the most fem mine men in the world are straight and a lot of gay guys wear a lot of different colors. And always remember you can not read the book from the cover.
Is there any reason you can not just be friends with this guy or at least be friendly.
Trying to figure out your age is .
2007-01-06 15:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rich goldie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you are thinking about is the stereotypical gay male, which is pretty much a large majority of them. but it looks like this guy is what is called a "butch" gay or "dom" instead of "fem" or "sub" gay. "dom" gay males are exactly what you describe, every aspect of manliness that drive women crazy except for the fact that he prefers guys instead of girls. there is nothing you can do, and that includes wearing tight shirts because he might ask to borrow it instead of admiring you in it.
just accept the fact that he is gay, and enjoy the two pieces of eye candy that live next door to you.
2007-01-06 15:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because they are gay does not mean they act the way you had them pictured. Same with females, they make look very girly, but be a lesbian. Does not mean you can not still be a good neighbor and friend.
2007-01-06 15:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by m c 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Actually, he decided to turn gay just as an excuse to not to have to break your little heart and tell you what a skank you really are after easily getting you in the sack.
2007-01-07 07:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Devil Dog '73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... look at what you just said... you sounded soooooo stereotypic... there is no book or law that says that all gay males have to switch or drive a pink neon and says "smootches honey"... stop being stereotypic and ignorant and get over it because at the end of the day... HE'S GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-06 15:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Raven P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... get out and meet people.
Just because someone's gay doesn't mean he has to wear pink and not drive a truck or whatever.
2007-01-06 15:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no gay guys dont wer weid clothes. ok s wht h is ga get over him
2007-01-06 15:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dont have to act gay to be gay.
2007-01-06 15:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋