a couple of months ago i french kissed this guy(after he pressured me. and i am not usually affected by pressure) and i did it really badly i guess because he pulled away and said so. i thought it was very rude. (there were details to the situation that i will skip that make him look like even more of a jerk.) but now he is telling ppl how bad it was at my highschool. i dont want that to be a part of my reputation. lol sorry if that sounds immature but i dont want to live in hell for four years.So when i am asked about that bad kiss do you thing ppl would react okay if i just sid that i dont like to kiss with tongue, so it really doesnt matter? i but the thing is that i am thouroughly disgusted by kissing with tongue. i cant stand it. i however have never tried kissing with out it. so i dont know how. but how do i tell someone that i have never tried it but i want to.
2007-01-06 15:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by summer girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just flat out tell the boy "ewww...that's gross". And then when ppl at school ask you about it or give you a hard time about it just tell them to mind their own business and ignore them. Eventually they will get tired of harrassing you and find someone else to bother.
I hate french kissing. It's disgusting! Do you know a human mouth has more germs than a dogs? And we know where dogs like to lick. And they eat other dog and cats sh*t!
Yes, I know how to french kiss and I use to like it until I saw a special on television on how many germs are in the human mouth. Over 20,000!!!
I also never liked exchanging saliva. That's so nasty. Just tell the guy you don't like to french kiss. If he really likes you, he will respect your wishes. You should never have to do anything with a guy that you feel uncomfortable with.
So what if he's going around school telling everyone that you are bad with it? At least now you won't have to worry about some other guy wanting you to do this! And you won't have to live in hell for 4 yrs with this. Eventually they will find someone else to tease and give a hard time to and leave you alone.
He was probably the one that was actually grossed out about it and is just laying the bad experience off on you cuz he didn't know what he was doing. Kind of like calling the kettle black. If he accuses you of being bad first, then you can't go and say that he was the one that was bad at it.
Believe me, it is much better kissing with mouth closed than open. And when you find the right guy, it won't matter if you have experience or not, you'll just have fun learning how to kiss!
2007-01-06 15:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by suzyq 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg! What an asswipe! You don't even need to provide any more explanations than that...that is SO rude! First of all he is an asswipe for forcing you to do something you weren't comfortable with. Second of all, he is an asswipe for pulling away like that. And third of all, he is an asswipe for telling everyone in your school that. Well you should definitely get him back and just tell people that he sucked and couldn't handle a real girl like you!
I am in a similar situation. I just had my first makeout session about a month ago (and the kid made out with someone else New Year's Eve by the way...he's such an asshole) and he kept using so much tongue I thought I was going to die of oxygen! Lol, but seriously, it was a little nerve wracking.
If the guy wants to use tongue and you don't want to, just pull away and he'll probably get the picture. If not, just politely say something like, "Sorry, but I'm not a big fan of french kissing, can we just skip the tongue for now?" It sounds funny, but I'm sure he'll understand if he really cares about you.
Better luck next time! ;-) And remember, you're better than that jerkwad!
2007-01-06 18:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure that the guy you made out with just had a different preference in how you do it. Wait until you want to french kiss, and try it on another guy, he should like it.
I know we are both girls but i think people that kiss way too fast, slobber ALL over, or choke you with their tongue are considered bad kissers.
2007-01-06 15:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Kathyy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to not know how to french kiss. If someone asks you about your french kissing experience then tell them that yes, you didn't french kiss as gracefully or as perfectly as you would've hoped, but it was actually really good for a first time. Be proud, and don't let words make you live in hell.
2007-01-06 15:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell the person that you want to save the tongue kissing for later and then tell them that you don't like tongue kissing after you get to know them
2007-01-06 15:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by f00tball77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your young, you really dont need to be kissing guys anyway. trust me id know.... im in the same grade as you are.
2007-01-06 15:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by just fine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them that you're uncomfortable with french kissing.
2007-01-06 15:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to act like you are going to choke!!!
2007-01-06 15:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Beaute' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm like you and i wouldnt care whath other people think it's what you think that matters
2007-01-06 15:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋