my ex called me not to long ago saying he missed me and he couldnt believe that i did call him for one month , i told hm the reason why i didnt call him is because i thought that he didnt want to talk. He tells me the reason y he didnt call me is because he was waiting for me to call him since i never call him. Well he told me he misses me and that he never said he didnt want to work on things i just came to my own conclusion. he took me out to breakfeast and we hooked up . Then he promised me to see a movie that i wanted to see really bad. i called him he didnt answer so then i called his cuz to see if she would call him to see if he would answer then, he did and blew up on her saying dont call me for other people, the problem is she didnt tell him she was calling for me. i texted him why are u not being a man and left a voice message to see if he was free to chill he never contacting me back, and i dont know should i just forget him and move on he still didnt call me back.what to do?
2007-01-06 15:08:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe you already know what to do, you just want to hear it from someone else so I will tell you what you need to hear:
This guy seems to have a big issue with rejection. He may not have wanted a relationship with you but the thought of you not calling him constantly is driving him nuts. So, I guess you can consider his actions to be some sort of "payback" because now he is rejecting you. When he snapped on his cousin about calling him on your behalf you should have taken that as proof that he doesn't want to be bothered with you.
As far as what to do, you need to stop texting him immediately and ignore any calls from him. As long as you have fingers don't waste your energy dialing that jerk's number. If you happen to run into him in public, politely ignore him and act as if you do not have a care in the world.
You don't deserve to chase some guy down that can't even give you a phone call to cancel a date. Go see that movie by yourself or invite your friends. Don't let this jerk ruin your weekend.
2007-01-06 15:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well clearly you don't call him back he was just using you, he wanted to get laid and he knew you would call him back because you care about him.
Unfortunately is doesn't sound like he really cares about you. You need to forget about him and move on with your life. You know you don't really need a man in your life to be happy. He seems very selfish and immature, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't care that he hurts you? You deserve better- now go out and find it!!
2007-01-06 23:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
If he cant make up his mind about a phone call, then hes to dumb to hold a relationship down. * Just dont call him. Guys always come crawling back..
2007-01-06 23:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a side plate . . . and he has other plates spinning.
he has no balls to tell you or his other gf . . . . I was always up front, never had a what you call a serious relationship, but plenty of hook-ups and they all knew about it. They fight so hard to outdo the others. And when they treat me right, I treat them right.
Find someone new, someone who will treat you right.
2007-01-09 12:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on b/c i think he was just trying to see if he could get you back b/c if he ever needed a rebound u'd be there so just move on and dont answer his calls anymore when he does call.
2007-01-06 23:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by breanna d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama drama. Grow up.
2007-01-06 23:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by djcapron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the one to STOP THE GAMES! Move on.
2007-01-06 23:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over him, he obviously just wanted some.
2007-01-06 23:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no because ur question is way 2 long
2007-01-06 23:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya hes not into you, just used you best bet is stay away you can do better!
2007-01-06 23:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋