im a virgin and im made fun of. i try to ignore it but it like pisses me off. i mean im 15 so who cares!
Also when i say i plan to wait.
i get made fun of more.
needless to say i stopped saying i wanna wait
2007-01-06 14:56:16 · 27 answers · asked by Katie M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friends dont make fun of me! they are also virgins. its all the slutty girls. who get drunk and laid every f***in day
2007-01-06 15:03:55 · update #1
my friends dont make fun of me! they are also virgins. its all the slutty girls. who get drunk and laid every f***in day
2007-01-06 15:05:40 · update #2
In the future you will win in the end. If it's the girls, and I assume it is, that is making fun of you. And, if they are truly not virgins, they will one day most likely have a forced marriage due to unwanted pregnancy or will end up a young single mother which is a hard job to endure for the next 18 - 20 years of a single mothers life. If they even get married, their husbands will not trust them because they have proven themselves untrustworthy. You on the other hand, because you have enough self esteem and pride to save yourself for marriage, will be highly trusted, loved and respected by the husband of your choice. If the boys are making fun of you as well. They would love to break you and then brag to every one about their accomplishment. These boys aren't worth your time, so don't let them get to you. One of these days they will look back and wish they had a wife as cherishable as you are. You may not be the most popular girl in school and a few are making fun of you. Hold your head high, because honey, you are above them. Choose your friends well with the same morals as you and ignore the rest. They aren't worth worrying about. Good luck to you sweetie.
2007-01-06 15:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Vida 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi Katie,
It's nobody's business whether or not you are a virgin. I think it's great that you plan to wait for someone special and not just "give it away" while you are still so young. You sound mature for your age, which is something that is in short supply these days. :)
I'm sure it sucks to be made fun of -- no one likes to be on the receiving end of that! But try to be strong and realize that while some of the sexually promiscuous kids you know are out having sex (and possibly getting pregnant, getting STDs, etc.), you are clean, safe, and healthy and can be a teenager! Being a mom at 17 wouldn't be any fun at all, would it? And contracting herpes is something that would stay with you forever -- as would AIDS. Why risk that? Continue to be smart and safe -- I think you're great!
Aloha from Hawaii!
2007-01-06 15:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is a fabulous book! It explains everything a young or woman hshould know about dating, sex, relationships,love and how to avoid being hurt and it will save you from a lot of very bad hurt if you read it.I wish someone had given me this book when i was a teenager! It is called Boundries in Dating by John Mcloud! My money is on you! You got a lot of character for one so young ! Hang in there and please! please! you and your special smart and cool friends please read this book and pass it around! The first time is special don't ever squander that gift. Those girls are just. jealous. Once most guys get what the want. They dump you and guys do talk, Wouldn't that hurt.
You need to ignore those losers and dont talk to them. Let your walking do the talking. Guys talk! And it isnt pretty. nice gurls get trated and respected a whole lot better.. they take you home to meet moma. They put a ring on your finger, They want you to be the mother of their children, Those kind of gurls generally only see the back seats of cars and then get passed around and used. hpv is a real danger. sleeping around can get you Dead or with a disease that is incurable. Hpv,Aids cervical cancer, herpes!
That not cool in my book!
2007-01-06 15:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by tennessee 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
who cares if your still a virgin! I'm still a virgin and i'm 17. Its god that your planning to wait. Guys dont want girls (as more than a one-night-stand) who've been with a ton of people. Youre only 15, your time will come evetually. Dont rush it and enjoy your "innocence" (youre still just a kid!) i know girls who've lost their virginity at a young age and say that they dont care but then i see them making fun of girls who choose to wait. Deep down, i think that they wish they had chosen to wait. (why else do they feel the need to attack the girls who do?) Hang in there chica!
2007-01-06 15:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i think your soreness :/ I lost my virginity whilst i became virtually 19 and that i became consistently puzzled, its because of the fact of stereotyping. All i will say is do not pay attention to them. Its an exceedingly good element to have and it incredibly catches a woman's interest whilst u tell them u are a virgin.
2016-10-30 05:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get made fun of too, but remember, you will NEVER regret waiting. All of my friends currently regret their first sexual experiences in their teens. Now that we are older, they wish they had waited. I made a decision to wait until marriage. I am now 21 and engaged to a wonderful man who shares my opinion on the matter. Stay strong and don't worry about everyone else. They will be the ones with regrets, a baby, STDS and or any of the above. You're too young to get involved in that stuff. True love waits. :) Good luck!
2007-01-06 15:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are wonderful, honey.
As you say, you are just 15. You have a long way to go before getting into any nonsense. At this age, lot of girls and boys try lots of stupid acts and majority of them end up in troubles for life. Anyway, why do you want to talk abou this? Ignore questions or queries like this. If you are proud of yourself, keep your self dignity. You don't have to give explanations.
2007-01-06 15:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Josephene 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are 15. and a virgin. That is not a bad thing. I have watched girls after they loose their virginity, and their eyes get an unhappy look in them. every thing about them changes a bit. not for the good. I remember one of my dates, wanted me to do it, I said, and then what, I sleep with the next one and the next one and so on. What will I have become? He stopped right there and we were friends after that. It is hard to go against the tide, but well worth it in the long run,l maybe the short also., Good luck/.
2007-01-06 15:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have the same thing going on except I don't get made fun of. Dunno why, maybe the people I know aren't as immature as the people you know (sorry if you take offense to that). When they do make fun of you, just remember that you should congratulate yourself on having standards that you'll live up to and when everyone says they're doing it, they're really not. Also, at least you're not going to be the one going to the clinic every week to check on an arriving baby. Hope this helps. :)
2007-01-06 15:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by learn_from_catch22 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're only 15 and have strong convictions, you don't need to be a follower, many people had loose their virginity because of the fear of being teased but we all have a right to our privacy. You do what makes you happy (never what pleases others).
2007-01-06 15:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋