Pls help me I want to tell him how I feel. But what if he does not feel the same? Well and how are we going to know whether that guy likes me or not??? Help me!
2007-01-06 14:53:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT hold it in. Because then you will always wonder what could have happened if you had told him. No one knows what the future is going to bring, and no one can really gauge another person's reactions. Best you can do is be direct, come straight out and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't reciprocate, his loss, and if he does well kudos to you.
2007-01-06 15:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by SerenityFilas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, I found it best to casually admitt it like work it into a conversation in a jokingly matter and if he laughs you say (in a cute, flirty way) what...whats so funny...what if im telling the truth, what would you say...un...what if I said "Josh" I like you then what? After he answers you can come clean. If that doesn't work (here's my favorite and in my opinion,the best way) then go to him and say " look i'm very nervous and i wasn't sure if I should tell you this because I have a really big fear of rejection but the thing is that I have feelings for you and you might not feel the same way but that's okay, I just wanted to tell you" after that give him a chance to respond.
2007-01-06 15:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Raven P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not live with fear for the rest of your life. I completely understand that it is very difficult to go up to someone and ask him/her if s/he likes you back. I was there before!! Just go up to her and tell her how you feel. You can not live for the rest of your life wondering if she likes you or not. You will only put stress on yourself. If she rejects you then it is her lost and you will get over it! Instead of thinking she might reject you. Why don't you think, what should you do if she likes you back! Be positive! I can understand that u are going to get very nervous when u want to approach her. If you want. Why don't you write her a note and ask her how you feel about her. You can hand her the note or if you want to, you can slip it into her locker!! Go for it!!
2016-05-23 01:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta take a chance babe. Look at it this way. If you never let him know how you feel, & he never makes a move either, then don't you end up with about the same result as if you told him everything & he rejects you?
You don't have to go straight up to him, & blurt everything out all at once. Start off by giving him subtle hints. When you do talk to him just give him your nicest smile, complement him on something he's wearing, or on one of his latest accomplishments. Build a friendship with him, & give him a chance to make the 1st move.
2007-01-06 15:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy TELL HIM. If he rejects you then it wasn't meant to be. He lost a good one. These are things we all have to deal with...but that's life. If you like this guy a lot most likely he does too. Give it a shot
2007-01-06 15:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by haptay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, I really like you. Rejection is tough, but how are you going to find out how he feels if you DON'T? Go for it, be prepared to handle the answer, and good luck!
2007-01-06 14:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking 2 the guys frends
then like c if u 2 r compatible
and then like tell him how u feel
u have 2 like be brave
[:hope it works out
2007-01-06 14:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not everyone is going to like us all. It hurts when we get rejected,i know, but you just need to keep going cause thats all you can do.
2007-01-06 15:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sqeekers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think whatever is the outcome it is better for you to tell him how you feel about him. Sometimes it is better for you to make your feelings known rather than regret later in your life
2007-01-06 18:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I life there is always an option. in your case option one is to forget him, option 2 is to confort him and tell how u feel or just keep woundering.
2007-01-06 15:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋