I went clubbing last night and this guy seemed interested in me. I noticed him checking me out, then he came up behind me and starting dancing with me. We were grinding, then my friend wanted to go to the bathroom, so I went with her. But as I was going with her, he was kinda following me and asked me what my name was. Then he stoped following me. My friend and I came back from the bathroom and went to dance in another section of the club. 15 minutes later some guy came up behind me and starting dancing with me. I looked behind me and it was the same guy. I think he was probably looking for me after I went to the bathroom, do you think he was? So after we danced for a bit, I told him that I had to leave soon & he asked for my number, I gave it to him, then he left. That was last night, (Friday) and now it's Saturday night and he hasn't called yet. Do you think he will call and if so when?
2007-01-06 14:49:20 · 19 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who knows. Give it some time.
2007-01-06 14:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by love me despite it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably too nervous to call. I don't call 60% of the girls I get numbers from. Running to the bathroom probably made him think you were trying to get away from him. Then, dancing in a different section sealed that thought. You've got to give him points for being so persistant. Give it a few days, but don't put to much into this either.
2007-01-06 14:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by TheSingleFriendthats2muchfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he will call you right away. He sounds like he could not have been that interested in you more than getting his feel on. Most guys who are interested in you beyond anything sexual would have asked permission to dance with you and most certainly would not have grinded against you.
He sounds like a creep. And he got what he wanted on Friday. Don't allow your body to be violated like that. You deserve a guy who will call. Most importantly you deserve a guy who will be a gentleman until he knows what type of person YOU are.
2007-01-06 14:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so common it's ridiculous. May I make a suggestion to you that may help in this matter? It's taken way too long for women to realize 2 things; 1/ Don't ever give your # to a stranger and risk a problem. 2/ If a man is really interested in you, ask him for his #. If it really is his #, then he really is interested.
It just kills me to see women go through this age old ritual that ends up with them being the ones sitting by the phone.
Take a risk (that's safe), and have some fun!
Good luck, and if he calls to see you on a weekday, blow him off!
2007-01-06 14:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Teenytime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seems like you are over anxious, and all he wants is in your booty. Never trust the bar flies. He probably got more numbers than yours last night and he probably is out with one of those numbers tonight. He will call you when he gets down the list to you. Not saying that you are not hot, but sounds like he is not!!!
Did he even get into a good conversation with you? Girrrrrrrrrrl get real get a real man not some punk like that!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-06 14:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by kachine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time, guys have self-esteem issues like women!
Relax, and remember, he's not the only guy in world, it wont be the end oif the world if he doesnt call.
I think he's interested, and he's trying to work up the courage to call. Just wait for a few days and see :)
2007-01-06 14:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by firestronaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 days after so Sunday. That or next week Friday at the latest.
2007-01-06 14:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just wait a few days after they get a girls number like that...
2007-01-06 14:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Naomi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may wait 3 days. or so. whyw would u just grind with someone u dot even know in the first place??/ he probably finds u easy now
2007-01-06 14:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to yourself!!!
lets put it this way...if a guy is REALLY into you he'd call the minute u leave him...well he hasn't yet has he? hence, he's just some typical random guy u met at a BAR...
don't bother waiting for his call.
2007-01-06 14:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say maybe he was drunk,give it a chance theres lots of fish in the sea
2007-01-06 14:52:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋