2007-01-06 14:47:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy thought you were perfect but you wern't into him, what would get your attention?
2007-01-06 14:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by huskie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could he possibly be the perfect guy. There will never be such a thing, nor a perfect woman for that matter.
However, after 40 years you may grow on each other and have a wonderful time.
As for getting his attention: Just tell him that he is the perfect guy, we like hearing that, it feeds our mannly ego. And than just keep telling him that for the next 40 or so years. Hopefully in return he will tell you that you are the most beautiful woman in the world, and remembers to tell you that as well for the next 40 years.
Love is simple people, most are just to lazy to keep it up, and or just take it for granted.
2007-01-06 22:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't that into you, he's not the perfect guy.
That said, some guys do take a while to notice a new female, so just do small things, listen to him attentively when he speaks to you, smile, etc, and see what happens. You might have to wait awhile to make progress. And its okay for it not to happen straight away. I mean if he dislikes you its hard to turn that around, but if he just hasn;t noticed you, it could still happen
2007-01-06 22:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not into you, he's just not into you. No use in trying to get his attention. If he doesn't already like you, then he probably won't.
Now that's if he really knows you. If he doesn't really know you all that well and you think that you guys could possibly be a good match, then just hang out with him so you guys can get to know each other. As friends, at first.
2007-01-06 22:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect guy? Is there such a thing? Apparently you really like this guy so my advise would be to do little things to attract his attention but still try to be yourself. If you have to totally change yourself to get him to like you then its not worth it. Give him some time though, maybe he does like you but hes just to shy to say so. Hope it works out!
2007-01-06 22:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not really into you now then don't put too much interest into him. Keep doing your own thing in the mean time & you should just start off as friends, spend a little time together, get to know each other, then you will be able to talk to him & find out just how interested he is in you.
2007-01-06 22:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...whose perfect guy is he? he may seem the perfect guy but obviously he doesnt see you as the perfect girl...not trying to be mean but just trust me just because he appears to be the perfect man doesnt mean he is especially if he has no interest in you...this may be a one sided thing so dont force him or trap him or make him feel obligated it could turn out worse then you could ever think!!
2007-01-06 22:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by ELIZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he's not the right guy for you. You won't have to catch the attention of "the perfect guy". You wont have to impress him or talk him in liking you - if he truly was the "perfect guy" for you he would be very much into you now.
You are too good to have to try to catch his eye.
2007-01-06 22:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be yourself, when you're quicky people tend to remember you. he'll find himself thinkinga bout him more and more and then eventually things will hit off. :)
just make sure not to act like someone you aren't, because if you guys get close enough - either he'll realize you're not the girl he thought you were or you'll end up having to fake your personality to him for the rest of your relationship.
just try to be near him as much as possible, "accidentally" happen to walk the same way as him, go to the mall at the same time as him. if he sees you a lot, you'll be fresh in his mind.
:) hope that helped
2007-01-06 22:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by music123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say this but then hes not the perfect guy..if not into you...
2007-01-06 22:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋