I have a guy friend that is currently trying to decide whether or not to divorce his wife. I am falling for him however. I do know that he likes me as well, but is it bad that I am falling for him? I am not completely for sure if they are going to actually file for divorce. I"m not real sure if he knows either. Should I try and get him to leave her or should I try and help him work it out if that is what he wants?
2007-01-06 14:37:43 · 9 answers · asked by smellycatsmells 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there as a friend for him the rest will work itself out. Don't try and get with him while he is going through this, you may lose a great friend. Good things come to those who wait...
2007-01-06 14:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not recommendable to talk him out of his relationship,your friendship could possibly fail over it.you need to let him breath and let him go to you when he needs a friend to look up to,and if he did get a divorce i'm sure hes not gonna want to end up right away in another affair,i would stand back and let things ride on their own and in time it will come naturally if it was meant to be.that way your not getting hurt over it ,if they get back together.let him deal with it.
2007-01-06 14:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well i dont think that u should brake them up i know that u would like to but i think that u should talk to him and let him know that u are there and that u will talk to him when ever he needs some one to talk to and that if he would like to go out some time then u are up for what ever and i dont think that u should brak them up because then u will fill bad and u might not think so right now but u will
2007-01-06 14:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by megryanmc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad. It's not as if you can control how you feel about him. It just happens. I think if you bottle it up it's gonna drive you crazy.I know from experience. I think you should tell him how you feel just to get it off your chest.Good luck!
2007-01-06 14:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by So'sYerFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love him right ? talk to him tell him that you love him but that u don't want to wait forever, its okay that he's married but getting separted, just make sure he really wants u
2007-01-06 14:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by spicy6959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him work out, if it doesnt work out your in the game!
2007-01-06 14:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by YeaBuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him.
2007-01-06 14:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play with fire you will get burnt. do nothing intil he is divorced
2007-01-06 14:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not bad at all.
i would go for it
2007-01-06 14:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by Random is my passion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋