I really like this guy we flirt and every thing we do late nite txting touch each other and im usually all over him but he just wants 2 stay friends wit benefits hes turned me down 3 times in 3 years! should i give up cause all he wants 2 do is have sex,and flirt wit other girls and me . I have 2 deal wit this every day at skool! Help!!!
2007-01-06 14:34:58 · 21 answers · asked by honoroll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not worth just sex, get over him and find someone that deserves you. Find someone that honestly cares about you.
2007-01-06 14:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nick S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his behavior is not what you want out of your man, then it is time to move on. Sounds like you are searching for more in a relationship than he is which would make the two of you incompatible. It would be best to find a guy that wants the same things as you do.
2007-01-06 14:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that maybe you've spent too much time chasing after this one guy, who clearly can't give you what you want from him; and not enough time putting yourself out there, meeting new people, and possibly finding the right guy? Waiting for him is only going to get your heart broken, I would accept his frindship (not the benefit part) and continue searching.
2007-01-06 14:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by SerenityFilas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, realize that what you guys have is not real. Move on and never look back. Find you a guy who is very sincere and that you can actually trust and see a future with. Not easy so take it slow.
2007-01-06 14:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two want different things, it won't work. Trust me, 3 years is 3 years too long to wait. You should move on.
2007-01-06 14:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a slut, if alls he wants is sex tell him that its either he's with you and no one else or he dont get with you either. If he choses not to be with you then live with it, find some one else. Im pretty sure there are other fishys in the sea ;)
2007-01-06 14:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he thinks why date you when he can have sex with you with no commitment(why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free).Date someone else you'll be happier and he will see what he is missing and regret his decision.
2007-01-06 14:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by keda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you keep hurting yourself when he already said he its not going to and by the way you described him he doesnt seem like a good person
2007-01-06 14:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by mnmlvr101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with Benefits is no good. Dump him and find your soul mate!
2007-01-06 14:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep give it up. you don't want to see him flirting with other girls when you have feelings for him. although he may be fun, find someone who feels the same way about you as you do about them
2007-01-06 14:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋