Okay, this is the problem. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year and 2 months. Recently, my brother got a new girlfriend. She is one of those fake preppy hahaha laugh all the damn time girls. She totally manipulates him and my parents. My parents barely know her and they have said more to her than they have ever said to my girlfriend and we have been going out for a whole lot longer. Also, my father works so he doesn't see her much. But my mom does everyday at lunch. She is always too busy watching her damn soap operas to actually show interest. On new years, my dad walks in the house and practically screams out her name in joy greeting her. But when he came to my room he acted like damn she is here when he saw my girlfriend. Give me some ways to frame her without getting caught. No I'm not jealous. I just want her gone because I want my parents to know that its ****** up to think she is an angel when they don't know her and to think my girlfriend is a devil. Im not blind.
2007-01-06 14:34:32 · 9 answers · asked by Jeremy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already talked to them. They are BLIND. I need to get her out before they are ruined. I need to expose her manipulative ways or something. Just trust me and answer my question I wasn't asking anyones opinion. I was just how to get rid of her. I care for my brother, I don't want her using him anymore. He doesn't listen to me. No I don't want him to find out for him self either. Just answer the question. Please!
2007-01-06 14:42:51 · update #1
First things first, how old are both of you? Why do either of you have a girlfriend?
You wonder why I am asking you these questions. . . because your brother is f*ing his life up with a manipulater. And you I don't know much about your gf except you been with her for 15 months with nothing but hanging to show for it.
I am going to give you a radio station . . . actually a show host website. His name is Tom Leykis . . . I don't know if you have heard of him. But listen to him . . . hear his broadcasts . . . have your brother listen to his broadcast . . . call in for Leykis 101. Tom, if necessary will talk to your brother directly . . . to try to talk some sense into him and you.
Both you should not have a serious relationship with anyone until you are both out of college and on your way to a successful career. Many people in the US do not succeed because they get distracted by the girls they are with, or oooppps they get pregnant on accident (yeah right, it is their way of trapping you). So make sure, you both wrap it up . . . I don't give a crap if they are on birth control. They can stop taking it and not tell you about it.
Tom talks about this, and talks with real people who have screwed their life over . . . because of not following the rules.
Here is his website . . . http://www.blowmeuptom.com/
In the right hand corner is the listen live link.
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As for you brother's gf, is she hot? Maybe that is why your dad is screaming her name and grabbing her . . . he is grabbing her a** . . . lol. Sorry for the joke . . . but tune in to Tom. It will be an eye opener for you.
2007-01-09 04:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Framing" will not solve your problem. If you want them to know what you think then tell them. Tell them how you feel about their treatment of you and your girlfriend. Do not rag on his girlfriend or try to convince your parents that she's bad news. Doing that will make you look bad and your parents will think your just being immature and acting like a baby. If she's really nasty she'll screw up on her own. Thinking you won't get caught doing something bad or mean is wishful thinking. Be the mature person and stand up for yourself that will make you look more like a man and less like a kid whining about his brother's rotten girlfriend(sometimes mom's and dad's don't know they are hurting their kid's feelings, parents aren't perfect they're just grown-up kids.)
2016-05-23 01:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough especially if she has got the family fooled. What about any old girlfriends of your brothers, invite them around when the prep is there, or fart around her or do gross stuff in her opinion like pick your nose or stare at her in a glaring way. But don't let anyone catch you, or talk about gross stuff to her like blood and guts stuff. Accidentally trip and spill something on her. I would not let your girlfriend do anything to her, keep her out of it because it will cause all the blame to go on your girl. What about her past loves, dig up some dirt, it really does not take much to run off a prep. use your imagination.
2007-01-06 14:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by kachine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your question, and I don't think you're jealous. I can see where you're coming from. It isn't fair your parents would do this for his girlfriend and not yours. I think, before even doing any of that, you should tell your parents. If they are like the normal pair of parents that don't listen, just tell her straight out what you think of her. If that gets you in a fight with your brother, tell him what's going on, too.
If he doesn't listen, then tell your parents that if they don't want you making trouble with your brother's girlfriend, then they better treat yours with the same respect and enthusiasm.
And if you don't think any of that is a good idea, I'm sorry. =) But I'm on your side!
2007-01-06 14:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever, kid. Get over it. You don't want a rude or smart answer? Well the way you word this question is rude. You need to get over this. How old are you? Ten? They probably don't say anything to YOUR gf, because she is the opposite of THIS girl. Probably very shy, never says anything, keeps to herself. YOUR gf needs to get your folks to like her. NOT get rid of the other girl. YOU have this ALL ************, and you are acting like a damn idiot!
2007-01-06 15:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like bump into ur bro when he is holding red wine or anything red and will stain and bump into him so he will spill it on her and play a bunch of mean jokes on her and stuff and blame them on ur bro. or tell ur bro u saw her with another guy and stuff!
2007-01-06 14:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Random is my passion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop it, you'll do yourself no favors trying to set her up. People will find out for themselves what she's like.
2007-01-06 14:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Old guy 124 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tape it maybe get a tape recorder to tape the real her show your parents or talk to them and let them know thta this girl is not good for your brother
2007-01-06 14:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get over this. It's not healthy.
2007-01-06 14:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋