this person has been following me and writing letters revealing strong feelings for me, but i do not like him...and i dont even look at him when he talks to me, but he just dos not get it. i fear that if i just tell him to leave me alone it will tear him apart and im not sure what he will do.
2007-01-06 14:32:34 · 11 answers · asked by purplequeen9890 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are giving him clear non-verbal cues like not looking at him when he speaks, he needs a clear VERBAL message. You can be assertive without being aggressive - simply say what you feel "I feel very uncomfortable with your behaviour, I want you to stop contacting me and following me." If he argues, don't add any more to the conversation that he can twist in his head, just keep saying the same things over and over "I feel very uncomfortable with your behaviour. I want you to stop contacting me and stop following me. I want no contact with you at all."How he deals with the information you give him is not your problem. A normal guy would just leave you alone. You need some support with this. I would tell your family IMMEDIATELY, these people can pose a threat to your safety.
2007-01-06 14:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I had a creepy stalker like that I pushed him down the stairs and made it look like an accident- he got the message pretty quick...it is a definate way to get rid of him though, best of luck!
2007-01-06 15:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by squeegleespooch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no other way....just tell the person that you don't like him and back off. If it hurts, it hurts. If he tries to pull something, tell your parents, a teacher in school...or if it gets out of hand, a cop.
2007-01-06 14:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be sure not to hurt him. thats the last thing you want to do to him is hurt him very badly. Just tell him how you feel and maybe he will understand and he will leave you alone.
2007-01-06 14:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by cameron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is stalking you, don't worry about hurting his feelings!! He could go to jail for stalking, tell him to back off or you will call the police
2007-01-06 14:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by ma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to hurt his feelings b/c he will not take hints or being nice and will dismiss it. Be up front and firm and maybe he will stalk someone else.
2007-01-06 14:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've met him? For all you already know he might want to be 60 years previous?!? What age are you? might want to you tell a ascertain or instructor? are you able to dam him on facebook? If he keeps hassling you the police officials might want to finally might want to be noted as he might want to be risky
2016-12-01 22:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell the truth. He will have to find out sooner or later. Just be nice about it.
2007-01-06 14:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there...actually, I'm still there. I just ignore him. I pretend like if I don't care about him at all (which I don't, cause he's getting verryyy annoying). Yeah, act like he's not there.
2007-01-06 14:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight that u don't like him! ignore him b/c maybe he'll backoff or tell him to backoff b/c if u don't he won't leave u alone!
2007-01-06 14:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Roxxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋