its not that their just dating specifically white guys, its also that they're outright insulting and avoiding all asian men, even looking down on their own fathers for being asian, insulting their own culture and always wanting to be white. im not saying or advocating just be all asian, we're all americans, and we're proud to be american regardless of race, but dont look down on your own race. take some pride in it. take some joy in it.
2007-01-06 14:07:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its complex.
Its well known that there is an asian fetish in america for AFs. Since the asian population is only 3%-4% in the US, a fetish in the general male population (96%) goes a long way to creating a local mania for AFs.
Sadly some ugly asian girls now think there too sexy for their own kind. But don't generalize american asian girls based on these yellow self haters. There are good asian women I know looking for a good asian guy. Most important dont let them make you a self hater and give up. If you look around you'll realize its not as bad as it seems even the media treating asian guys better recently.
2007-01-06 20:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by klixmaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some Asian women like that but the number is actually very small. However, they do make a big splash because American media loves them. The media always like to put Asian guys down so what can be better for them than a Asian girl who looks down on Asian guys? However, in reality, most Asian women are not like that.
2007-01-06 22:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not all Asian women are like that... Well... I do not know... But if ever I have a chance to live in America, I'll choose an Asian guy because I think I feel more secure being with my own race... And... Asian guys are nice... They still have these values, that Americans do not have... I think... Maybe... They just prefer white guys cause they are more goodlooking and taller...
2007-01-06 14:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by leda_lertz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are generalizing, based on SOME Asian gals you know. These particular ones are most likely uncomfortable with their race, resent being Asian, so take it out on those around them who are also Asian! It is an ugly reminder for them as to what they are trying to flee from.
I think you are right in that we are all Americans first, which is a melting pot for the earth of ALL races. We should all be able to get along, and to some degree, be color-blind, and not keep score of who is with who.
After all, wouldn't it be real boring, if we were all exactly alike?
2007-01-06 14:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by grapejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats very stereo-typical. Not all Asian women are like that. Infact, what you are saying is insulting. Not all Asian women avoid Asian men. Maybe they just think they some American men are good looking.
2007-01-06 14:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by mangalangadude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow I didnt know they did where I live is a big Asian population and when I think about it I cant recall seeing one Asian girl with a white guy its all Asian with Asian maybe its just like that here
2007-01-06 14:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i hear you bro, but its all the waay across the board. what i think it boils down to is choice. we have it here in the US, so u might as well exercise it. my brother for example, he was married to a college educated black woman, but he left her for some trailer trash white chick who doesn't have any ambition and they're still happily married 8 years later. i agree with the on lady who said all asian women aren't like that but the one who are -- are the ones u ignore -- believe there is always gonna be someone somewhere who will always remind them of who they are and where they come from, especially if their trying to be something or someone they really aren't
2007-01-06 14:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Big Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are talking about. I have girl friends just like that. Just excuse them for not knowing any better. They don't date any asians what so ever and say that they want a half white and half asian kid. Wierd huh?
2007-01-06 14:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have studied with an organization that it's called internalized racism when one is embarrased from where they come from. In America is always been the way in order to be beautiful you must be white, blue eyes and be thin.
2007-01-06 14:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...im asian/filipino..and im going out iwth a white guy...and im with him because he got to me first because the asian guys that ilikes liked white girls or spanish girsl..i never thought i would be with awhite guy..before him i pictured ymself with an asian guy but now that i fell inlove with my bf i see myself withhim for alng time because i love him and not because i like being with a white guy..and when two people are in love-love is one;color,race,religion,and culture.
and for me i dont see nothing wrong liking a diff race..we are all equal..
maybe you just couldnt get an asian girl because you just dont have the confidence or maybe the asian girls you like are the picky ones..maybe you should like other girls and not just the asian girls...
i stilll like ASIAN GUYS..but
i love my white boy..
and by the way its 2007...this generation colors dont mean that much anmore, of the person they like
2007-01-06 14:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by lovelylen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋