Do all young women nowadays have to go through a period of partying and sleeping around anymore?

Question

I know many women don't but it seems like all the so called sexperts believe that young women (maybe from 16 to early 20's) are obligated to go nuts for a time (get drunk constantly, sleep around a lot, and just act irresponsble) before they start acting like adults. It's like all these feminist sociologists are promoting this behavoir saying stuff like 'this is how men have acted all along' to justify it. Just because men have done that crap forever dosen't mean women have to adapt the behavior too. Am I wrong here?

Hey Blondie read the details of the question before you judge me.

Answer 1

You answer your own question in the first line of your explanation. Many women don't engage in the partying and sleeping around time. Those who do are freed to do so by the relaxing of the social norms. The relaxing of the social norms has been happening for hundreds of years and has produced some good things and some bad.

Answer 2

This is coming from a guy,

No you are not wrong man,

I've noticed that a lot of chicks in the age range you've described are into that crap, However dude, i'm 27 and there was all kinds of chicks that were doing that kind of crap when they were like 17,18 and all that then too.
Get this there was a chick that i went to high school with that did nothing bad then but i read in the paper last july that she died drinking and ddriving, Same age as i am. People are into that crap at all ages

Answer 3

Yep. They all go through that 'wild child' phase and you're wrong too.
I can't tell you how many times I've heard a married woman say something like "I only ever dated 2 guys before I got married--I wish I had stayed single longer like my friend did. She dated lots of men and had a blast and I missed out on that"
The thing is ask most single young women if they're having a lot of fun trying to find that Mr. Right--it's mighty lonely seeing all their other friends pairing off in committed relationships.
That's what's up--it's been that way for a long time.

Answer 4

I don't know what "sexperts" you're referring too, but I highly doubt that they all share this opinion. Some people, men and women, go through a "wild phase" for various reasons. I don't think any women are doing it as retaliation for men acting this way for ages. That's pretty ludicrous.

Answer 5

Men aren't really all that different, not all guys 16-20 are promiscuous or do a lot of drinking. Truth be told a lot of women do sleep around but no one will admit it.

Answer 6

Hold your horses there.Not all young women get drunk and sleep around alot. That is just your typical hoochie. I am an older teen female, and it disgusts me that you have that stereotype engraved into your brain, but not all woman are feminists and you actually seem to be a self-centered guy who has no clue what he's talking about.

Answer 7

ill never sleep around. Im not gross and honestly I'd never sleep with a guy unless I was in a relationship with him for awhile and trusted him. I dont drink constantly because thats gross too and when I do go out I dont drink to get wasted, and yeah sometimes I make out with a guy, but its not going any further. I'm 20 and consider myself more mature then most people my own age.

Answer 8

nicely our founding fathers were christian and considering christianity is anti female.... truthfully, its merely the cultural veil. women human beings strengthen up in a society that teaches them to be organic and "strong women" in the different case go in the course of the shame of being termed a ****, or being looked down on by others. adult men are taught that if something, it merely makes them extra studly. because women human beings many times have this underlying shame linked with sound asleep round, each so often even inspite of the indisputable fact that they enter into an casual act with casual intentions, they commence to strengthen emotions or have the favor to be loved and revered as a thanks to practice their nicely worth. because the guy would not furnish this or desire this, they're accused of not respecting the girl. there is diverse hues of gray throughout persons, inspite of the indisputable fact that. adult men get damage in casual relationships each so often too.

Answer 9

I think u r completly right all young ladies go through the stage were they want 2 but i think a proper lady wouldnt actually dio it just cause giys do it dosnt make it right girls have more 2 risk sleeping around!!!!!!!

Answer 10

I wish they didn't.

I mean, I didn't "sleep around," but I did lose my virginity. And I was never drunk, but I did drink. (That was when I was 18 and a half.) So, no, I guess not everyone goes to the extreme that you're describing.