There is this girl at my school who follows me everywhere and does everything i do.
i'm not popular i'm in the middle but i got this new top and the next day she had the same one- how do i make her stop?
shes trys swimming the same way.
yesterday i was talking to this guy and she pushed me out of the way and started talking to him.
does this girl want to be popualr or is she just trying to get me jeloious because its not working i'm just getting really annoyed is there anyway i can get her to stop??
someone help me please!
2007-01-06 14:02:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
They say immitation is the sincerest form of flattery.
She's jealous of you. She doesn't know how to act so she's copying you rather than finding her own way. She feels awkward and dorky and pretending to be like you makes her feel less that way.
The best way to deal with someone like this is to call her on her bad behavior (like when she physically pushes you away from someone, you say "Please do not touch me") but for everything else, ignore her. If she talks to you, ignore her. If she wears the same shirt, ignore her. DO NOT ENGAGE. She desperately wants your attention. Don't give it to her. Eventually she'll tire of getting no reaction from you and move on.
Don't give this chick a second thought. This is a good life lesson: you are going to meet plenty of people along the way who annoy the heck out of you. When you worry/think about/discuss them, you give them the power. Take the power back by letting it go....
2007-01-06 14:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by harrisnish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to her, but that's not always a good option. Find out what she really hates, and if you don't mind, do that. Hopefully she'll see that you two aren't the same and stop. A lot of people have role models that aren't popular. She may want to be like you because from what she sees, you're everything a popular person should be (i.e. smart, funny, good-looking, well-dressed, positive attitude, etc.). She may just want to be like you; she herself may be jealous of you. But like I said before, if you can, you should talk to her.
2007-01-06 22:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rosalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There alot of nasty ways take a pictures of her make posters of miss copy cat 2007 before and after. I like having your males friend buy her a sodas put liqiud EX LAX IN IT have fun WATCHING HER GO TO THE BATHROOM, SNAPS PICTURES PUT IT ONLINE SO EVERYONE SEE IT IN SCHOOL. Pass out printed papers in saying be wear of copycat who trying to be popular, but was raise on a farms sleeping with pigs.
2007-01-07 00:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, tell one of your boys that she wants to have sex with him. Then talk to the guy and when she comes and pushes you away, let the good times roll. Seems she has a "Hollywood" fixation on you trying to copy everything you do. Talk to some of your horny guys too and say that there is this girl that wants you. Again, when she pushes you away, just give the guy the look of "this is the one." Otherwise, talk to her up front and hopefully she will back off. IF not do the above.
2007-01-06 22:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Big C 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just ignore her. The more you bother about it, the more she would get on to your nerves. Keep yourself cool and don't even bother to look at her when she imitates you. Be happy that you are so good that someone wants to imitate you ;). If she meddles with your personal life, ask her what her problem is and get things straight.
The cooler you are, the easier it is to deal with such fools.
2007-01-06 22:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by arjun_tva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be one great gal making good decisions and choices for someone to want to walk in your shoes.
Maybe this is her way of making friends. However, if it is making you uncomfortable then tell her this is not your idea of making friends. Sounds like she has some deeper issues unrelated to you and you may be her outlet.
2007-01-06 22:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by coxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a top that is figure flattering to you but not to her so she looks ridiculous also when she tries to push you out of the way stand your ground and say loudly that you are flattered that she likes you and feels the mneed to touch you but that you don't swing that way you keep it straight. she will be embarrassed
2007-01-06 22:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she isn't cool for trying to copy you,and that if she continues,then she has no life. That should get her to shut up.
Good Luck-
2007-01-06 22:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her 2 go copy someone else! And make her jealus.
2007-01-06 22:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Gerard Way 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to pull her aside, and NICELY ask her to stop following you around, and doing everything you do. then ask her why she's doing it in the first place. perhaps she just wants to be like you.
2007-01-06 22:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋