2007-01-06 13:59:47 · 19 answers · asked by SydneyB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um...desperate much? Sorry to be blunt...but he said no...if you continue to persist you are just going to freak him out. There are plenty of guys out there...find one who likes you back. Do you really want someone you had to coerce into being with you? Your are worth more than that I am sure.
2007-01-06 14:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My God don't use sex!! What the hell kind of answer is that!
If he said no then you need to accept his answer. If you start trying to "convince" him then you will just scare him. He will think your obsessed and needy. Give him space, and just hang out in casual settings. Don't put any pressure on him. Get to know him as a friend first. Once you get to know each other better, he might change his mind on his own. Maybe not. You can't make him date you. While your trying to be friends with him move on. If you find someone else in the mean time then great, go for it. Don't spend all your time trying to get him. Find someone better.
Just whatever you do, don't try to get him with sex. If you do he will see you as easy and never think of you as a girlfriend. The only thing you would get is booty calls late at night when he wants sex. That's not healthy and you will only get hurt.
Hope you find someone who will treat you the way you should be treated! Good luck!
2007-01-06 14:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Positively Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be persistent but not love-psycho crazy. If he reason for saying no was a schedule complication, ask for another date. If he says no to the second date, then leave it at that for a while. After a few weeks, ask again. Still no? There are WAY more fish in the sea, my dear.
2007-01-06 14:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not force him into anything. if you would try to convince him to like you more and say yes, he would probably like you less. and you might only convince him to say yes through pity. that would be worse than just a 'no'. but i am sorry about that. it sucks when stuff like that happens.
2007-01-06 14:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't convince him. it's better to just move on. i mean, why spend time with someone that doesn't like you? it's a waste. there are many guys in this world that will like you, and it's best just to find another better person.
but i assume that's what you're talking about. put more details in your question.
2007-01-06 14:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by i like turtles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This can be really tricky. If you keep bugging him, he'll be annoyed and avoid you. Try to let your talents secretly shine when he's around and DON'T ACT LIKE YOU'RE CRUSHED CAUSE HE SAID "NO." It looks really pitiful and it won't help. Just show your great attributes around him and maybe he'll reconsider!
2007-01-06 14:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Christina H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone say yes when they already said no. Hey, at least you asked him.
2007-01-06 14:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get his attention do any thing u can but dont do any thing slutty cause he will take u the wrong way and will use u so just try to tlk to him and see if that works and see if he would go out on a date with u or some thing
2007-01-06 14:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't. why would you want to force yourself on someone? Move on there are plenty of fish in the sea
2007-01-06 14:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he said no, then he's not the one (cliche, whatever) But seriously, you'll find someone better, let him go
2007-01-06 14:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by Alison 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋