I am here in the states and don't want her to go. Her aunt is with her but does not want her to go either. what should we do.
2007-01-06 13:48:42 · 7 answers · asked by schmoopie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he also keeps calling her hotel at 1am
2007-01-06 13:49:15 · update #1
yeah it would just be those two. she only met him a few days ago. seems nice but you never know
2007-01-06 13:53:39 · update #2
All these answers must be by children themselves, anybody that has raised daughters (6 of them) knows how simple a 21 yr old star gazed girl can be, they do not see danger just a good time by an exotic guy. And the guy has a boat, one of mine would be hell bent on doing it. All you can do is remind her over and over she is a grown up and she needs to think of the danger of being alone with no way to get help, suggest they eat at the beach or a nice park. Good luck.
2007-01-06 15:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuantely, your daughter is an adult. I hope that her common sense will kick in and she'll make the right decision, but at the same time you should try to explain to her that it isn't that you don't trust her, but that you can't trust someone you don't know. If she knows him then that is a different situation completely. Just try to talk some common sense to her and say a prayer. Good Luck!
2007-01-06 21:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by CarpeDiem 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she knows the guy and there is going to be other couples there than yes, but if it's a one on one...hell no!!
Stay on dry land.
2007-01-06 21:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would find out if anyone else is going along or if she will be alone. then i would determine how long she has known him.. and if she still wants to go there really is nothing you can do but pray for her safety
2007-01-06 21:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mike F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shes an adult. Trust her judgement. Best of luck.
2007-01-06 22:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by vw chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you were there except for talking to her you can't stop her...she's an adult.
you can try talking some sense into her...but that's about it.
2007-01-06 22:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is 21 not a kid anymore
GET OVER IT
2007-01-06 21:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by david o 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋