I hate her so much. She always is with my cousin. I see her to much. What do I do?!?
2007-01-06 13:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by maybetodaythesunwillshine2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you hang out with your cousin you dont have a choice but to accept her. Maybe she wont be your favorite person but try and find a way to get along with her for you but also for your cousin's sake
Or if she is being a biatch with you just ignore her when you hang out with your cousin , without being uncivilized about it
2007-01-06 13:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by viva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that what you experiencing is a sort of jealousy that is really common among relatives, because you and your cousin had grown up together you start noticing that you dont get to spend as much time together or to just talk or anything, the thing about this is you are going to have to accept this or else risk losing your cousin, your cousin obviously isn't miserable, I'm guessing that your cousin tells you that they argue and it is ALL because of her, yeah well sometimes we say things that arent always 100% of the story, you may hear when they are fighting, but you do not hear when they make up. Just support your cousin and remember that one day your cousin may marry this person and she will be a part of your life forever, might as well make your time with her happy or else risk your cousin try and pry away from the family because he doesnt want to put his gf or himself in an akward situation. Good luck and remmeber dont say anything that could backfire on you, and the best thing to do is just talk to your cousin IF she is being mean to YOU directly. Again good luck...
2007-01-06 14:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, your cousin won't care whether you like her or not, so you will probably just have to deal with her. However, if you sit down and talk with your cousin about it, he might be able to help the situation. good luck
2007-01-06 14:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can suggest is to not spend any more time w/your cousin when he's with his girlfriend than you absolutely must. It's his life. Even if you think she's mean, obviously he is happy w/her. That's his business. You cannot risk losing his friendship by interfering in their relationship. Maybe someday they will break up, but 'til then you need to stop worrying about it!
2007-01-06 13:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own life and stop depending on your cousin to entertain you. Deal with it , its life. If you really love your cousin you would suck it up and make nice with the girl for his sake.
2007-01-06 15:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by layala74 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Refuse to hang around with him when he's around her. Talk to your cousin about it. And whatever you do, don't try to break them up. He seems to really like her if she's with him all the time.
2007-01-06 14:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by BLAH. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2d cousins are criminal game.. in case you think of he's warm choose for it. Your mothers and fathers will possibly freak out. criminal, yet icky. How is calling somebody in the event that they hate your lady chum very intimate??????
2016-12-12 05:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by keetan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with if cause if u really loved ur cousin then u wouldn't wreck their relationship. if u really hate her then tell ur cousin. or u could pull really mean tricks on her until she breaks up with him. but that's mean.
2007-01-06 13:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by birdy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it was your cousin`s choice to start dating her, live with it or stand up to her.
2007-01-06 15:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by arkaelamcghee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stay away from your cousin. It is his life not yours.
GET OVER IT.
2007-01-06 13:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by david o 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋