how can you create liking for person whom you don't like but when they keeep liking/ following you! Somehow i don't seem to get the people whom I like for a boyfriend/relationship!
2007-01-06 13:41:37 · 20 answers · asked by biologie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make yourself attracted to someone...you either are or you aren't. And dating someone just to have someone to go out with isn't fair to them. You are wasting thier time when they could be finding someone who likes them back. However...if you are honest with them...and let them you just want to hang out as friends and that it will never be more...and they still want to ...then I see no problem with that. contrary to common belief I think it is possible for men and women to be friends. Just be careful and watch for signs that they are still holding out hope that you will still hook up.
2007-01-06 13:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they grow on u an when u feel lonely they are there i suppose a bit like a back up. i have dated men i don't really fancy because they are there an i got to like them slowly over time an found out that look aren't the be all an end all of relationships.
2007-01-06 21:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By dating someone that you are not attracted to you are saying to that poor person that you are interested in them--no matter what you say to them. Call it 'hanging out' or 'just talking'--whatever the situation if you are out alone together you will appear to be interested in their eyes and anyone else who sees you out together.
Plus if you do get a bf how's he going to feel when you see your male friend on the side? Odds are he's not going to like it one bit.
2007-01-06 22:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The story of my life! If I like them, it will be fairly certain that they won't like me and if they like me, it is almost always the case that I don't like them.
I date all of them...the ones who like me and the ones I like. I keep hoping I will grow fond of the ones who like me. Somehow, up until now, I never do. I also hope the ones I like will grow to love me and that hasn't happened either.
They say love is a two way street but for me, its like being lost in a place like New York City full of one way streets! I may never get out of this love affair maze!
Hope you do better than I've done on the Love Game. You certainly couldn't do worse...oh well, I've got lots of friends and casual dates and that's nothing to sneeze at.
2007-01-06 21:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes......absolutely. I dated several gentleman in the last year, some of whom I was not attracted to yet we had great conversation......I did this for a reason.....I wanted to develop my level of discernment......what I truly wanted in a man and what I didn't. It worked for me.
2007-01-06 21:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Janet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. that's a problem.. I had a similar one.. this one guy kept on following me, calling me, inviting me out and giving me stuffs.. I hanged out with him for awhile, i mean he wasnt that bad as a friend, but i didnt like him. After awhile of being with him.. I thought I liked him, i sorta made myself believe I liked him.. but thts just bad, I didnt XD no matter how i tried. I tell you its no good.. u would end up hurting his feelings.
2007-01-06 21:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by val 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its technically okay, but you never want to lead somebody on. Once you know you aren't interested, the nice thing to do is let them nicely so that they can go find someone who will like them.
2007-01-06 21:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Christine5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could learn to like them and they could be the best person you have ever met
2007-01-06 21:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by HoTaSaToKyOdIaMoNd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur relationship would be a half full. And u can never make ur self fall in love
2007-01-06 21:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by kittynigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that? That's just misleading for the other person. Go for what YOU want — that's what matters.
2007-01-07 01:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋