I hooked up with this guy, and i was wondering if i should make the first move to talk to him post-hook up. I dont want him to think im getting attached or anything cuz im not, but how do i kno if he is waiting to see if i will talk to him first or if he should try to talk to me first? Help! Should i be the bigger person and speak first or wait for him to do it?
2007-01-06 13:40:32 · 8 answers · asked by ck26062 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think you should. i think you would feel better knowing whether or not he thinks that. you might wait on him to talk to you and he never does because he is thinking the same thing that you are.
2007-01-06 13:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by babyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a person from the UK, I am not entirely sure what a 'hook up' is. Does it mean having casual sex? If so, what's the point in talking to him afterwards unless to arrange another 'hook up'? If it were me, I would wait for him to contact me. If he doesn't get in touch, then leave it.
2007-01-06 13:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is the reason for the talking to him? If you're not getting attached and therefore have no attachment the only reason to talk to him would be to have another booty call. Otherwise, you're in for some heartbreak because I'm almost sure he doesn't care if he hasn't gotten back to you.
2007-01-06 13:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Modus Operandi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on how long it's been since the hook up...but I personally would probably say something first.
2007-01-06 13:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tripping Juggalette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it, as long as you don't act like you're coming on to him and just saying hi and all that casually, should be okay. If he asks just let him know palymates and FWP is all you want for now
2007-01-06 13:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably hasn't spoken to you because he has NO respect for you. He has gotten his piece & moved on...
This is how you get treated when you give it away to anyone who asks....
2007-01-06 13:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
treat him like you couldnt care less. only talk to him briefly
2007-01-06 13:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go for it
2007-01-06 13:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋