I currently live in USA and have my own buisness with 5 employees , my girlfriend of 4 years moved back to Ireland for her job as she hates the USA and wants me to move with her or we break up. If i stay here i lose my girlfriend if i go back to ireland i would find it hard to start my own buisness as i have lived happily in the USA for the last 7 years ?
2007-01-06 13:39:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow she's kicking you in the balls the easy way
2007-01-06 13:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by csm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some soul searching. Evaluate the relationship and the future of the relationship. Bottom line is you've gotta do what's best for you. Don't move with out really thinking it through.
Do you see yourself marrying your girlfriend? If you don't see that in your future then stay in the States and move on. If you love her and want to be with her at that level and the only way to do that is move...then happy travels!! Good Luck.
2007-01-06 21:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Sounds like you're in quite a quagmire!! I'm assuming you're from the Emerald Isle yourself.Clearly, one of you has to decide which is more important. Job, or love? Personally, if it were me, I'd stay here with the man I loved. It sounds like you've built a good business. I tried that, not easy! But, what does she do? I just noticed a question from her. I'm gonna check it out, get her side. Maybe I'll have to come back to you and rebut! Ciao
2007-01-06 22:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r happy u should stay. u shouldnt have no problem at all finding a nother girlfriend. she will eventually find a nother boyfriend where she is going to. u will always love her but u have to move on. man u have your own buisness my family is from here and they dont even have their own buiseness. u should stay. tell her u love her but u are to comfortable to leave. if she really loves u she will understand.
2007-01-06 21:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Quinah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
business first n girlfriend later.since u r already rooted in states 4 so many years n owned 5 employees,don't because of one girl u've to sacrifice all these? go n get another girlfriend who is more understanding,more mature n more care of u !so u better think twice to make ur final decision n think over my advice here.
best wishes n happy new year.
2007-01-06 21:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes going to dump you over that lose the girl and find one who lets you go where you want.
2007-01-06 21:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Giad G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered it on your own when you said that you worked for 7 yrs building your business.to you is it worth it.
2007-01-06 21:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, it's not worth it. breaking up is a lot easier than giving up your life goal and especially a business.
2007-01-06 21:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by adazhia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a long distance romance,visit often
2007-01-06 21:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U MOVE THERE SHE WILL HAVE TOTAL CONTROL.U R EMPLOYERS NEED U ..DITCH THE GURL
2007-01-06 21:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by URworstNITEmare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋