my husband opened a my space account for work(i was with him when he did it) a week after he did this i went into his account to add some pics(my husband did not know i was going to do this).thats when i noticed "sue" a old gf sent my husband a private msg like 2 days after he signed up. it said "i know you well,very well".he then responded with just a hi how are and joking with her.they went back and forth till i called my husband on it only 2 days later.he played it off as no big deal which really nothing bad was said between them.i should have waited and just watched how things played out.what concerns me are a few things how come he did not tell me he was chatting with his ex.how come he deleted his whole account like 5 mins after i told him i saw his mgs.i may be overreacting but this is the same gf that he left his first wife for 8yrs ago.i went to sue's my space page and she is local and single.
2007-01-06 13:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by marykay897678 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, maybe he did it because he realized it bothered you & it wasn't worth it to him. or.... he is hiding something. depends... it could be either way.
so, that is why myspace can be really bad for relationships...
sometimes guys leave out major details because they don't think of them as major details. to them it is no big deal...
my husband doesn't tell me things like... so & so broke up... or gossip stuff... because he doesn't think i care... that is just how some guys are...
2007-01-06 13:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 18⤊ 0⤋
I have only one sentence for you " do not overeact about it but be very watchful".
2007-01-06 13:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by sanmi . 3 · 18⤊ 1⤋
THE OPTIMIST ANSWER: I think the reason why he deleted his myspace account right after you asked him about the e-mails is because you made him mad by spying on his account and not trusting him. Even if it was Innocent. As far as the ex-gf I'd say that she is an ex for a very good reason and you have nothing to worry about.
THE PESSIMIST ANSWER: The reason why he deleted his myspace account right after you asked him about the e-mails is because you found him out. Once a cheater always a cheater.
THE CORRECT ANSWER: I think the very best thing you can do is not ask a bunch of strangers what they think and go ask you husband calmly what was going on. If he discusses it with you calmly and rationally then you probably do not have anything to worry about. On the other hand if he blows up and starts screaming and yelling about nothing in particular and changes the subject real quick then he's probably cheating on you.
Hope this helps and that you have a nice day. :-)
2007-01-06 13:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 19⤋