I like him alot. I wasn't really expecting this to be such an issue for me. I wasn't expecting him to be a virgin either though. He's 21. I like sex and I'm not sure I'm willing to give that up.
2007-01-06 13:24:43 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't intend to wait till marriage. He just said his last girlfriends were prudes. But he does not see why if he has waited so long why he should give it up now.
2007-01-06 13:38:57 · update #1
Better hang on to him...Won't find better!
2007-01-06 13:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you need to think if you respect his decision to be a virgin. Now, does he plan on being a virgin until marriage? If no, then just be patient, maybe he will share that special time (but quick) with you.
Now, if he wants to wait till marriage you have to respect that. However, are you willing to respect that? Are you willing to date him seriously to see if he is the guy you could potentially spend the rest of your life with? I think it is an awesome thing when two people decide to wait to have sex until marriage. Even if the other one is not a virgin. You could wait to have sex again until marriage. Trust me you will still like sex. Get something to take care of yourself in the meantime if you need to.
2007-01-06 13:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of activities than can be fun and exciting without actually having sex. Is he willing to engage in those? People don't spend enough time on foreplay I find...they are so eager to get to the down and dirty they miss out on a chance to really explore. One of my most erotic and sensual experiances was one where we didn't have sex. And also...what does it say about you if you are willing to let a good guy go because he is not ready for sex yet. How would you feel?
2007-01-06 13:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go down on him if he hasn't said directly he's saving it or its not religion or something . Believe it or not even though bad guys are remembered as walking talking cocks, girls want it just as bad if not more than guys. If he truly loves you he will not mind losing virginity to you. I'm assuming you are 21ish and you havent disussed this in depth with him. This guy is a keeper though because he has the cock and the heart separated. Don't dump him at any cost and try to work it out.
2007-01-06 13:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by kalhonaaho01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him... I had sex once and regretted it because I didn't like the girl... and since I was a dumbass I fell for the questioning your manhood trick. My current girlfriend had been more 'active' and she thinks I'm her best boyfriend because I don't want sex right now... I just want her. I respect honesty... and any guy who is willing to tell you he's a virgin has great self-control and is more of a man.
2007-01-06 13:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not planning on waiting until marriage then why wait any longer, he doens't know what he's missing..show him. It could be fun for you, you could teach him things the way that you like it. You can have a lot of fun with it, he might appreciate it and you can get what you want too. That's just the freak in me though.
2007-01-06 13:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from a guy,
I'm a virgin myself.
THere's a few factors, is he waiting till marriage, is he just waiting for the right girl.
If your really into him, Well i guess you could try asking him what's hilding him back, or find out if he'd like to have sex with you
2007-01-06 13:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. I'm not a guy, but it seems like he is waiting for that one special person. Maybe you should try to convince him that you are that one special gal if you like him that much. If he is a virgin and you don't like that, then he is just not your type. Maybe you can sit down and peacefully talk to him about the situation. Maybe he is waiting for marriage. Maybe he doesn't any sick diseases
2007-01-06 13:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by ktluvaxx♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends on if he's trying to give it up to you. maybe he's waiting until he's in love. you should try getting sex out of your mind for a while and focusing in other things like making the relationship better or simply great. and talk to him about it. lets face it, the best person to talk to about intimate issues is the person you're thinking of getting intimate with.
2007-01-06 13:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on what he is waiting for.. if it is marrage then you are out of luck but if he is just waiting for someone special you must make him believe that you are that special someone. Now there could be other things. Have you even fooled around? maybe he is like 90% of guys that are afraid they are "small" you need to let him feel comfortable. if you wanna talk more about this feel free to write me on yahoo messenger. evil_motors
2007-01-06 13:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mike F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he is a virgin shoule make you think about when to have sex with him, bc if you dont' really like him, then i wouldn't. the first time for a guy like this (ik, i lost my virginity less than a year ago when i was 22) is really really important. if you leave him, it will be hard for him (like it was for me when she left). don't decide to date or not date him because of that, but when it comes to sex, just be sure that you truly like him.
2007-01-06 13:29:45 · answer #11 · answered by Always Question 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋