I have told her i like her, and all that. And that i want something more. She knows i like one night stands, but she is different she means something more to me. Ahh what should i do ?
2007-01-06 13:24:42 · 15 answers · asked by Getty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for 1... get rid of this 1 night stand stuff! you need to be able to comitt yourself in order for her to even begin to date this girl! im a girl and this is all so... dumb! if you always get 1 night stands, how are you ever gonna be able to buckle down and have a serious relationship with this girl? and if you like her so much, and shes different from all the other... (for lack of a better word) sluts that you had 1 night stands with, then you should do something about it! stop looking for 1 night stands, and seriously ask this girl out, and get to know her more before you ask her out that way she KNOWS your not just looking for a 1 night stand! she will trust you more if you become her friend, and while all this is happening, dont be afraid to flirt a little! BUT DONT COME ON TOO STRONG!!!!!! that is 1 of the top turn offs for a woman!
if you like her YOU have to change for anything to EVER happening to you! i hope this helps!!!!! =D
2007-01-06 13:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. Tell her that you don't see her as a one night stand you really admire her you've never met anyone quite like her and see a potential relationship with her. If I was her I would be flattered because it takes a lot to change someone and to have qualities that make you see her as more than a one night stand is flattering. Plus, it is nice when men can open up to woman.
2007-01-06 13:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have told her you liked her, now ask her out on a date and allow the bond to grow from there.
You might get hurt, but you might get married and live happily ever after. It's cliche' but the only way you ever know love is when you know pain.
Take the risk or else you will never have someone to grow old with.
2007-01-06 13:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♥~Gemma~♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like one-night stands? I'm not sure that that will be really attractive to her. I would suggest that you let the friendship unfold as it can... work hard to show yourself that you are mature and healthy enough to risk a little in getting to know someone and letting them know you. Don't rush the steps.
All the best!
2007-01-06 13:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as though you are pretty young. Whatever you mean by "I like one night stands," it comes off sounding stupid and macho. If she is a woman of any level of maturity, she would blow you off just for mentioning something like that. But if you really want to show her you're sincere, then you need to do it with your actions and not just your words.
2007-01-06 13:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by rufus_rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to prove to her that you aren't like that with ALL girls. i know where she is coming' from, you have to start acting less like a player. ill clue you in, girls talk and ALL guys have a rep in the dating world... sounds to me like you don't have a good one, break it. show her how much you like her by being a gentleman and treating other girls right. i would say shape up, and then you'll have a REALLY good chance with her if she likes you back. She is also afraid of getting hurt.
good luck... peace and <3
2007-01-06 13:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by tibbitz02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you`re positive that there is something there for both of you, then go for it. Waiting for the right time is important too. And also try to find out what`s going on in her mind before surprising with the question.
2007-01-06 13:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by asdfghjkl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove to her that you've changed and that she means a hell alot more to you than other girls.
Don't check out and ogle other girls when she's around, otherwise she won't beleive you!
Talk to her and tell her how you really feel in an honest way that would touch her.
2007-01-06 13:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should prove to her how much you care about her. She obviously doesn't understand you as well as you want her to so be her friend before you get right into a relationship. I know most of us girls would like to know a guy before we want to date him so talk to her and find her likes and dislikes and see whatyou guys have in common.
2007-01-06 13:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by 5ft Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she going to know how you feel unless you talk to her? Communication is the most important part of a relationship. If you dont take a chance you will never know.
2007-01-06 13:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by kensjo63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋