2007-01-06 13:22:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I talk to her about it, and stop everything. If the connection is great, we could be friends, but thats it. The only way i would be with someone like that is if she was so feminine that she is basically a woman in behavior, looks, etc, and she was the only person on Earth, and I was so desperate to be with a woman that I would pretend she was one.
2007-01-06 13:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends if it bothers you that she is a he for starters. I think the most appropriate thing to do would be to acknowledge that you found her/him attractive and that was the reason you sent her/him the drink... nothing more and nothing less. A compliment such as, "I appreciate your beauty and thought you should know that it made you catch my eye. Just thought I'd send you a drink to let you know."
It's hard to answer further because it depends on "how much later" you find out she is a he! If it's after you took her/him back to your place and you've been kissing and grinding, I don't think there is a very delicate way to end it. However if it's just after you sent the drink, maybe you could simply send a second drink saying you were mistaken but you wished them an enjoyable evening.
2007-01-07 05:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by PerfectlyOK2BImperfect 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Catch his/her eye, raise your glass and toast his successful ruse silently with a nod.
If you don't want any further contact, don't catch his eye again... he'll get the message unless he's desperate.
If he comes over to thank you for the drink, be polite, but cool. Apologize briefly for your misunderstanding but don't be either rude or encouraging.
He's put a lot of emotional cash on the line by crossdressing in a public place. You've given him all the credit he requires by buying him a drink. He's probably laughing and enjoying the fact he fooled you.
2007-01-06 21:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mmerobin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy a few more drinks & see what the night has in store.
2007-01-07 03:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did that good of a job fooling you, he's talented! Complements are most assuredly in order. That takes know-how, skill and an impeccable eye for fashion.
2007-01-06 22:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Danagasta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA Have a good laugh, I just did. SO what, it just goes to show that much of what is considered female beauty is powder and colored goop smeared on their faces, hair color, hair spray and wigs. One lady appropriately called it: Factory Beauty.
2007-01-06 22:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn a lesson don't buy drinks for anyone unless you know them or have met them. I would simply say, "Excuse, I have to leave." and I would leave to avoid any confusion. there are plenty of places to go. Home would be better then with a transvestite.
2007-01-06 21:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You tell the person that the drink was for doing such a good job at being a poser.
2007-01-06 21:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by boinga28 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can;t laugh at your own mistakes then you are going to be a sad person. And maybe cut back on the alcohol!!!
2007-01-06 21:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
congratulate the bloke on a superb make up job(or great club lighting), it takes a lot work to look good and just have a good laugh. walk away and look for the next potential girlfriend.
cheers,mate.
2007-01-06 21:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by atlas shrugged and so do i 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋