This question is a continuation of the last one I asked. This girl got my apology letter and she let me a message "Not Wanting To Say Goodbye." Previously she didn't want to contact me and I wanted to tell her that I loved her in person, something that she told me a few months ago. Since she never wanted to contact me, up until now I was willing to settle for at a longshot her forgiveness as I never thought she would forgive me. I never expected a response like the one I have recieved. I think she misinterpreted my letter as a dear John type letter and I am pretty sure she has forgiven me. I really don't wanna hurt her anymore but I do love her. A relationship will be extremely difficult but it may work if we both try hard. Should I show her my full hand, the last thing I want to do is hurt her again if she has gotten over me? I'm freakin confused here.
2007-01-06 13:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by DMan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been away from her for four months at college and I swear ever hour I think about her.
2007-01-06 13:25:34 · update #1
Thats the honest truth and I don't wanna sound like a desperate man here.
2007-01-06 13:26:37 · update #2
go for it
2007-01-06 13:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by spuds36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put all your cards on the table. Tell her how you feel. And that if you made one of your messages to her sound like good bye: You're sorry, that's not the way you meant it to sound. Tell her you know the relationship is going to take effort to work, and that you're willing to work hard at making it work. Also tell her that to avoid causing her anymore pain you won't contact her again until she contacts you. In other words you've boot your cards on the table: Now it's her turn to play her hand, or fold. If she folds, the games over.
2007-01-06 13:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by jrsabbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a difficult question, and i've been there myself, and i made the choice to say something. unfortuanetly, it didn't work out, and yes, there was pain. but ik that that pain will heal, whereas if i had never told her, i would always wonder if i should have, and that, i believe, would have been worse. the final decision is yours, but i would say tell her. better to know and move on, than to never find out and wonder.
2007-01-06 13:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Always Question 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to think and value your relationship. You two have to part for sometime to understand the situation. Then, finding the right time, convinving her slowly, you give her an ultimatum.
2007-01-06 13:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by jam2school 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her. if i were the girl, and i had actually forgivin you, i would be extremely happy to hear that. and seriously, the worst she can say is no, then you are sad for a while (which i know sucks) but youll get over it. i know its cliche, but nothing ventured nothing gained.
2007-01-06 13:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Miss_hoodie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should
2007-01-06 13:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by .. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋