3 months ago I asked my fiancee for time apart. things were moving fast, marriage was coming, and I thought I needed to think alone. She was very upset, but I insisted and didnt see her for a month. I realized how much I loved and I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me and she was dating someone else. She kept dating him for about 1 week. She eventually forgave me and we are engaged again. Recently I found out that she had sex with the other guy the night before she took me back. She says she wanted to experience him, but that she wanted to teach me a lesson and test my love. She also said wanted the guy was very sweet and she wanted to thank him. She told him she would go back to me, so the last night she admits they did it almost all night, three times. We have talked a lot, about how she was hurt, and I have expressed its ok to tell how she enjoyed the sex. we are back in love and my heart knows that, but I cannot stop my head from being jealous. advice
2007-01-06 13:13:45 · 3 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are the one who ditched her in the first place. She thought she was getting married and you worked hard to convince her otherwise. So she picked herself up and even found a new guy? Bravo for her. Most girls would have been miserable and their self esteem could be crushed. You could have done lasting damage to her trust of you, and men altogether. I guess next time don't kick her to the curb without first considering that she's a catch and others will be there waiting for the chance at what you would just throw away.
2007-01-06 13:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well uhm.. YEAH it`s okay to be jealous. I mean i would too if the love of my life were telling me about how good their sex was with another woman. But try to put that behind you. It`s a thing in the past now & she`s done what`s she done & now she`s with you. Don`t let it ruin your relationship. Hope you can get through it.
2007-01-06 21:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by asdfghjkl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are allowed to feel jealous. I think jealousy is a natural feeling for men when they think about their partner with another man.
2007-01-06 21:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by HoTaSaToKyOdIaMoNd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋