I'am going out with a sixteen yr old and my parents don't want me to and they say either you break up with her or your kick out of the house. I just don't know what to do about it.
2007-01-06 13:11:44 · 9 answers · asked by cameron 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
well brother for starters don't let anyone get in the way of your love life and just do what you got to do to stay with her. eventuallly you have to tell her or she will never know how you feel about her
2007-01-07 02:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, son? If you are over 18 then you have no business dating a 16 year old, you are legally an adult and she is not, that can spell lots and lots of legal trouble for you. If you are under 18, you are legally under your parents' control and whatever they say goes. It's a cold, cruel world out there for a young man on his own, especially with nothing more than a high school education (if you're lucky), and believe it or not your parents really do know what is best for you in the long run. Have you tried sitting down with them for an adult conversation about why they feel the way they do about this girl? If you can do that without losing your temper and shooting off at the mouth, you may find that they know things about this girl that you have not been able to see, being blinded by "love" as you are. Perhaps the problem they have is that they do not know her well and do not see the side of her personality that you do. After you have had this frank discussion with them about their feelings, ask if you can invite her for dinner or a family evening at home, playing games, etc. to give them a chance to get to know her. If the thought of spending an evening with her and your parents makes your blood run cold, then their reservations are well founded and you need to think over this relationship again. Should you decide to not see her any more for whatever reason, take the easy way out and let your parents shoulder the blame for that decision....parents are notorious for being unfair, after all...lol.....
2007-01-06 21:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by flidais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How is this a parenting question?
2007-01-06 21:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip your parents and do what your hearts desire. Same with the girl's.
2007-01-07 10:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with her, you won't have a place to live.
Tell her the truth. You can be friends, but not boyfriend / girlfriends.
2007-01-06 21:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by phamy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u.......and I would tell your parents that if you really like her than go for it.....tell your parents that you love her and they should respect your dicison
2007-01-06 21:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by allyjeck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your girlfriend what your parents said.
and just make it look like you broke up and see her on the side
2007-01-06 21:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Awesome Amazing Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure im sorry but thanks for the great answer im sorry once again!!Just do what your parents say
2007-01-06 21:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you tried just being honest with her about whats going on. try it she just might understand.
2007-01-06 21:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by mysterious_yet_sweet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋