There is always something i see in a guy even if he is not so good looking there is always an aspect of them i like,it could be the smile,their eyes or even the way they are formed or how they walk and i start to fantasize being with them.Black guys really don't make me feel that way,cause they have to be extremely gorgeous for me to start liking them.But White guys?Oh!My!Oh!My!They just do it for me.I'm black,so this is not a racist jive.Does anybody think i'm obsessed?
2007-01-06 13:06:12 · 17 answers · asked by babyface miller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having a preferance for white guys is just like someone preferring blondes over brunettes...there is nothing wrong with it. Although there are plenty of other black people who may give you a hard time. I mean..I am mixed..half black/white, and I still caught a lot of flack for only dating white guys....had there been a black guy...or a guy of any race for that matter...who had caught my interest I would have dated them too if they liked me also. But I have always leaned towards white men. Don't over think it hun...you attracted to who you are attracted to. Let it ride and have fun!! Don't let anyone make you feel bad.
2007-01-06 13:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all I can say is there enough to go around for each and everyone.
All I can say is do not pass up a good catch for wearing blinders. There might be another suitor for you. He could be a Spanish guy, an Asian guy.
Don't just let one race be the only race in you life, because there are many that could please you and you could have just as much fun with either.
Each race offer their own unique culture. It is good to sample each before making a concrete decision about settling with one.
I don't think you are obsessed,lots of girls go throuhg a phase, some learn to like the phase and remain there others change and only go there occssionally.
I hope this is of some use to you, good luck.
"FIGHT ON"
2007-01-06 21:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Skip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah. I'm white, and I'm the opposite. When a black guy walks by, I find something that I like about their looks just off the bat...but with white guys, I usually have to really get to know them before I feel an attraction towards them. There are some hot white guys, but they dont usually take my breath away like the black ones do. I dunno. I guess I'm in the same boat you are
2007-01-06 21:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-06 21:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Portia P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah...I'm the same way as you. I prefer white guys instead of black guys. My friends and family think I'm weird but I think I'm normal......love/like isn't about color and if you let that determine your happiness then you are doomed to fail.
Hope this helps. :-)
2007-01-06 21:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by ~(*) Loving Life (*)~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, everyone has a "preference" and that is not racist...just how you are wired. As far as being obsessed or not...I wouldn't say so from your question or quick synopsis underneath.
2007-01-06 21:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am white and very good looking but I am telling you that people are just people. It could be because whites are more in less in power of the world. Just find somebody that loves you and you love him.
2007-01-06 21:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your curious. That's normal. Color-blind is great. Go with your instincts. It becomes obsession when you let your desires control you every move and action.
2007-01-06 21:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im just opposite but there is only one that drives me wild. And I love it when he does.
2007-01-06 21:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because i'm white and i am going out with a african american because i don't feel comfertable with white guys either.
2007-01-06 21:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by chrty_clark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋