Parents yell?

Question

What us a Way to block parents out when they are yelling..not at me.. at eachother dont say just listen to music.. cause i still think about when im doing that.. so any help? =(..also. im 14

Answer 1

Ask them to argue when you are NOT around. Although you're going to see things like that throughout life, it's not healthy for you when it's coming from your parents, obviously so often. They should be setting a good example for you as your parents. For all they know you might grow up and argue with your husband all of the time just because it's what you grew up around. Tell them it bothers and annoys you and that they need to be more mature when it comes to handeling their feelings while you're around. Or show them your question on here and all of your answers. They should get the point then :) good luck

Answer 2

She is obviously upset about something else (finances, home, partner) and is taking it out on you even though you are probably not the reason. Sometimes when we are unhappy we tend to take it out on the ones we love the most. Try to be patient with her and just do as she asks when these things happen. Try talking to her about how it makes you feel when she becomes angry with you when she is in a better mood. Running away will not solve anything and killing yourself is not the answer either, you are young and have much life to live. This time in your life is only temporary and will get better with age. Try also to take this as a lesson to learn, to treat others with kindness and courtesy. It may be beneficial when you have children of your own. I don't believe I would consult a school counselor until you have attempted to resolve this with your mother and or family first. You are inviting trouble when it may not be necessary. If she is physically abusing you then this is a different story but I don't think yelling at you for your writing skills and spilling sauce warrants involvement from outside sources.

Answer 3

Leave the room and try to get away from the situation. Go to a friend's house or a family member's house if you have to.

If they are fighting a lot, you need to talk to a school counselor or a trusted family friend or a family member and tell them what's going on. I don't think any teen should have to hear their parents arguing constantly. It can really tear up a kid's heart and it can also be pretty annoying when all you hear is yelling.

All the best!

Answer 4

okay, i know what you mean, my dad was abusive and yelled at my mom my whole childhood.

its hard to block it out, what i use to do was take a shower or blast up my cd player, play on my computer, talk on the phone (i had a safe house if things got out of hand and my friend would talk to me while my parents were fighting), eat. eating gets everything off my mind, do homework, write a story, write poetry, sing a song, put make up on, think about the guy you like

sorry its not easy living with your parents constantly yelling
hope everything works out

Answer 5

Try sitting them down, on separate days when one of them is not around, and ask them why they are yelling. Get BOTH opinions so you can then decide the reason BEHIND the yelling. Usually it is because something serious is bothering both of them, so they yell to release their tensions. That is, what they are yelling about has NOTHING to do with what is really the problem.

Answer 6

You should talk to both of your parents when they settle down , and let them know how the yelling and the fighting is affecting you. I am sure that they want what is best for you so once they know much it bothers you I am sure they will stop.

Answer 7

If you have a close relationship to your parents, walk in to the room they are yelling in and say HEY, I CAN HEAR YOU IN THERE! If that doesn't work, go into the room they are yelling at and when mom says something turn to your dad and say "that's right" and then your dad says something do the same thing to your mom!

Answer 8

Hon I'm sorry you had to ask this.
Have you been to your school counselor?Go in and talk to them course your family needs help .Do this before it gets out of hands and it get worth for you. Good luck and God Bliss you From a dad and mom

Answer 9

You can try playing music and reading. I know that it's really terrible listening to people fight. If you can lose yourself in a book, then it is almost as good as taking yourself away from there.

Answer 10

I'm also 14. try talking openly to them -- separately -- that it bothers you when they argue. If they take their anger out on you, stay out of it. Most of the time, I'll bet, they're arguing about something completely dumb and pointless. this goes on with just about every family.