2007-01-06 13:01:40 · 2 answers · asked by Hot carmal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Love: An unselfish caring about the interest of the other. Infatuation: Selfish, restrictive. Thinks What does this do for me?
2) Love: Romance often starts slowly. Infatuation: Romance starts fast, perhaps taking hours or days
3) Love: You are attracted by the other person's total personality. Infatuation: You are deeply impressed or interested in the other's physical appearance.
4) Love: The effect on you is that it makes you a better person. Infatuation: A destructive, disorganizing effect.
5) Love: You view the other realistically, seeing her faults, yet loving that one anyway. Infatuation: Unrealistic. The other person seems perfect. You ignore any nagging doubts about serious personality flaws.
6) Love: You have disagreements, but you find that you can talk them out and settle them. Infatuation: Arguments are frequent. Nothing really gets settled, or is settled with a kiss.
7) Love: You want to give and share with the other person. Infatuation: The emphasis is on taking or getting especially in satisfying sexual urges.
2007-01-06 13:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like her or do you lust after her.
2007-01-06 21:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by rothe_jabbuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋