my bf and i had tried twice to make our relationship work, but i ended up dumping him on the 2nd time we got together. I don`t know why.. but i think im jealous of his ex. He and his ex have known each other since kindergarten! & i`ve only known him for a year. They also were together for 7 months UNTIL i came along. She`s really small, actually she looks she still belongs in 7th grade but shes 16. I dont know why, i just look at her and i envy her & how cute she is because she`s so small! and im well just average. even though people and her friends tell me im prettier i just dont believe it. I really dont know. Im also kind of bothered that she and my ex still talk & hang out. I`m over him nd all, but man! can someone just help me get over this.
2007-01-06 12:55:11 · 12 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course that would bother you maybe you feel like as if him and hes ex could have a better relationship together since shes known him his whole life then maybe you just feel insecure if you really like him then maybe your afraid that he will leave you and go with her in any kind of way as friendship too. Do you feel as if your ever competing with her? well dont chances are this guy wont even be there for your whole life try to face the truth then youll be able to move on if you are jelous of her then you can work your way from there
2007-01-06 13:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all i dont think you need anyone telling you this because you already know... you are jealous of the girl... of course there is nothing wrong with being jealous it is only human!! but the problem is you are letting it get in the way of your relationship!! try to get your feelings straight and if ur bf was thinking of getting her back then he would of when u broke up and not tried to make the relationship work... be more confident sweety!!
2007-01-06 21:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'd definitely say you have jealousy issues. { most of us do, to a degree. Don't let it get you down.}But more importantly, you sound highly insecure! If he wanted this " cute, little girl", he'd be with HER, but he's not, he's with YOU!! As you 'grow up', you'll find that looks hold little importance in a relationship. I've been with plenty of 'hot' guys. Most, not all, were conceited jerks, and a bore to be around! If his "friendship" with this girl bothers you, talk to him, but I warn you, if their friendship is ONLY that, then putting "restrictions" on his choice of friends may turn him off. He's with you cuz he likes YOU!! Let that, and your friends supportive words, give you the confidence and self esteem you deserve.
2007-01-06 21:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take time to think about yourself for a while. She might be small and cute but What did god bless you with. being jealouse is a very poisonous thing to carry around. It just eats you up inside and causes you to lose out on so much in life. It hurts and its painful. and its like a cancer it grows and causes you to think bad thoughts. It takes time but try to just look at the good side of people and the good side of things.
2007-01-06 21:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely now how u feel, trust me it is ok u will get over it. u just felt left(jealous) out b/c ur bf is close friends with a girl and a girl he use to go out with. but he was with u for a reason and it must be b/c u r cute. all u hav to do is not think about her, and lov urself for who u really r. never tell urself that u r not good enough, just don't look in that girl's direction at all u r over ur bf and that's all that really matters.
2007-01-06 21:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me u r!!!! but dont fuss out because there are ways to stop or even fix it!!!! if u think u r, then just talk to him or even talk to his new girl!!!! or find someone else. someone that u know loves u and wil definately make u forget the other old love bird. i know that i is totally hard to forget the one u truely love, and it takes time, everyone goes through it, just forget it as much as possible!!!!
2007-01-06 21:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by heartbrokenandconfuse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin to c who gets him
2007-01-06 20:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by GO SUNS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a counsellor.
2007-01-06 20:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are jealous but i wouldnt let her get in the way of my relationship if i was you
2007-01-06 20:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bre-Bre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play yahoo games
2007-01-06 20:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋