my girl lives two hours away from me. and so i miss her so much.
but sometimes when i call she doesn't pick up the phone but i really want to talk to her because i miss her so much and that i really want to hear her voice so sometimes i just want to break up with her but then again when i think about it, i really don't know what to do without her in my life. so what do i do now...
do i break up with her?
2007-01-06 12:51:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont break up with her.... i am in the same situation but he lives farther away..... it really hurts to have him that far, but i couldnt live without him in my life so it is better missing him than not having him at all..... its a hard decision and sometimes i feel really sad about it, but dont you think its worth it? just follow your heart and decide....
good luck! =o)
2007-01-06 12:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by ro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a long distance relationship for five years. It can be difficult, but then again, we are in it for the long haul, and we both have kids (someone is going to have to move from one school district to another.) In your situation, and assuming you are young and childless, it might be best to either resolve to move closer together or go your separate ways. Trust can be a big issue when you are so far apart, especially when you are in the courting phase. You say you are thinking of breaking up with her. You are likely just thinking of breaking up with her because either you cannot bear the pain of being away from her, or you want her to feel the pain of separation that you feel everytime you call and she does not answer the phone. If you could figure out how to control those feelings, and you talk ahead of time about who would move to the other's neck of the woods if things got serious, you might have a lasting chance. Good luck!
2007-01-06 13:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bad news isthat long distance relationships in the main don't work. Mine didn't last long and it ended up with me phoning him a couple of times a week and he stopped phoning!
She may have a valid reason for not picking up by being somewhere else - you need to speak to her and ask some questions about how she feels etc, ask her to visit you and see what reaction or tone you get. If she's hesitant you'll know.
2007-01-06 12:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by bjka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that long distance relationships have a great chance of surviving if the people involved are truly dedicated, and have trust. I don't think that 2 hours is that far, you can visit on weekends. If you love her don't break up. I hope it works out.
2007-01-06 12:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated my now husband for 9 1/2 years 5, were long distance, we have been married now for 6 years. It was very hard at times but if it is meant to be it will work out. Good luck!
2007-01-06 12:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say she doesn't pick up the phone, do you mean you think she is there and availible to pick up the phone and just doesn't because its you?
If that is the case then you might just as well give up, she's just not that into you.
If you think she really truly wants to be your girl though, and is as devoted to you as you are to her, then its possible. It will be hard work.
I hope you can decide what to do, sometimes following your heart just doesn't work.
2007-01-06 12:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Alwaysasking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a long distance relationship for 2 years. We where 2 hours appart too. If was hard at times and we took a lot of sh*t from people saying how "that never works" but we where happy and I'm glad we dated. If you're happy your happy, if you're not you're not. You chose. If you love her, stay with it. If you don't quit wasting her time. And yours for that matter.
2007-01-06 12:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Juicy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, people in and out, one believes in long-distance, one dont, it depends on urself!!!! but i would say that just visit her a little bit because alot and i mean alot of people think that long distance relationship is a way for someone to cheat on the other without both not knowing!!!! i u truely love her, keep her, but be as close to her as u can!!!!
2007-01-06 12:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and how old is your girl? Are either of you willing to move? How does she feel about the distance? Think you need to have a sit down and discuss how you feel. If she is into you, she will be willing to compromise. Good luck.
2007-01-06 12:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by maryc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're not happy in a long distance relationship so I think you should break it off. They never work out anyway.
2007-01-06 12:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by selene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋