If a guys tell you he feels like he´s carrying the whole relationship what those he mean?
2007-01-06 12:50:39 · 26 answers · asked by jc pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He feels like you're not putting enough effort into the relationship and you're not trying as hard as he is.... that it is a one-sided relationship.
2007-01-06 12:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are just like a pet stone (no action) as for as nurturing the relationship is concerned. You may respond good to the guy initiative but no initiatives from your side to make it more interesting relationship.
2007-01-06 20:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ottawan-Canada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most things in the relationship is dependant on him, such as he's always paying, he's always driving, he's always fixing her problems. If this isn't true for you, then he's a guilt tripper trying to manipulate you for some reason or is self centerered and doesn't see your efforts in the relationship - a good sign to leave.
2007-01-06 20:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels like you don't really care if the relationship stays or goes... like it's him doing all the work to sustain it because you can't be bothered. Both men and women need little tokens or gestures of devotion and involvement. Plan something and invite him to join you... it'll make him feel better.
2007-01-06 20:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by The Nerd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feels like he's the one who initiates stuff like getting together, the emotion in the relationship, the talking and sharing invovled... even the sexual stuff. Means you don't give him much to work with.
2007-01-06 20:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by adazhia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he's the whole thing that ur probably not acting like a part of the relationship try acting like when you guys first started dating...sweet to him
2007-01-06 20:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by PinkPanther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that it is one sided and you are not carrying your part.
2007-01-06 20:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he thinks he is strong. No, silliness aside, he thinks he is doing all the work of making the relationship work.
2007-01-06 20:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sky Salad Clipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
means your not doing your part at all! for a guy to not only do this but tell you, yeah you need to get things together on your end.
2007-01-06 20:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by k_princess84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing all the work and that you are not doing anything to contribute to the relationship
2007-01-06 20:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bre-Bre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋