did he dump me as a friend or was we ever friends in the frist place?

Question

It was this one guy I was friends with since about may maybe June. Any we talked about everything in-fact when we met he just got dumped by his gf and I was having some prombles myself. So we just click(as friends). I say sometime in mid September I notice he was started to become conceited talking about how girls was chasing after him and how much they wanted to be with him even if he was telling them that he was with someone. But we still was talking and everything so in November sometime we wasnt talking as much as we use to(we both work). Then I started noticeing when we would talk he would only talk about himself and all his women that wnated him and was getting the big head because I would confornt him about only calling me on his trems and would ask me how I was doing(just to shut me up i think) Then that slowly started to fade(him asking how I was doing) after a while. He would call to brag about something good that happen to him or if something bad had happen or if he was bored. Other then that he would stop calling me. So on new years eve I was haveing a personal promble and decide to call him to talk to him about it. I got to talking to him the 5 minutes into what I was talking about he would me call be back and of course never did. Three days later he text me saying I'm sorry I'm just getting back to you and didnt call me back. I told em you kool just dont call me when your upset or when something good happens. He did anyway. Last night he was upset and want to talk to me. Because it was this girl he like upset him but before then he told me that when the're together he would forget about me and some other of his friends. And I just let him have it and didnt bite my tought about what I had to say. And of coure he was sorry and told me that he is about to start callin me more. So when I tryed calling him today just to see if he was for real(wich i new he wasnt)he change his number.

WE WAS NEVER TOGETHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE WAS JUST FRIENDS

Answer 1

I don't really think he was much of a friend in the first place. He sounds pretty selfish and self-centred. I would just leave him alone.

Answer 2

I don't think you were ever really going out. I think this jerk only used you as a backup when he didn't have a gf or if he had problems he couldn't talk to anyone else about. I would, personally, just tell him you can't be friends anymore if he keeps treating you like that.

Answer 3

u r like his spare-tyre 4 emergency use only.it's very obvious that he plays u around n not serious to make friend with u.i advise u to leave him n warn him don't come to disturb u anymore or u try to get another boyfriend 4 replacement.u should understand that mutual understanding n common interest r very important in life.

best wishes n happy new year.

Answer 4

You were just a booty call.

Answer 5

oh my gosh... i can't even read all this babble...