ok...so i was goin out w/ this guy and i fell in love. Then he dumped me and hooked back up with his ex. Now she has broken up with him again and he wants me to take him back. I love him, but i think if i go out w/ him im just goin to be a replacement girlfriend and that im going to get hurt badly again. I love him but i dont want to get hurt. help me. what should i do?
2007-01-06 12:45:20 · 7 answers · asked by ~JusLivinLife~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you aren't a Plan B and move on!
2007-01-06 12:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have time to be with someone who only gets with you for the love he lost. Then dumps you when the love comes back. You should not be a put a way girlfriend he needs to be real or do not go out with you. You can not just pleasure what he wants and you just be someone he uses.
2007-01-06 12:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by valerie h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to move on. He had his chance with you and he blew it. If you go out with him again, then he will start to think that you will do anything for him. To him you probably would be just a replacement. Meet new guys and get to know them. If you find you like one of them, then ask them out. Dont let your ex get you down. It is the begginning of a new year you know!
2007-01-06 12:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Who, Me?? ...I'm Lost... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you to need to talk go out on a date and watch the way he looks at other girls when they walk by is hes checking out there butt when your there then imagine what hell do when your no but if you just keep talking and he is still listening then hes not a player give him another shot
2007-01-06 12:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you are not ready to be with him because you are afraid of getting hurt. If he really wants to get back with then he will wait until you are ready.
2007-01-06 12:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Bre-Bre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's using you. Walk away and move on.
2007-01-06 12:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J. Anne Smythe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just answered your own question. (Think about it)
2007-01-06 12:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋