I have always been the pretty one and my sister the smart one and it seems that my parents like her so much and do any thing she saids .. she acts nice and everything but when there not home she acts like a ***** she treats me so bad and i dont.. i likED her but iam starting to hate her so much i try to treat her nice but she dosent and i dont now what to do iam 16 should i live home?? i see that theres better without me i feel soo bad
2007-01-06 12:44:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should not leave home, That is your home too. And trust me hun no matter what home will not be home without you... Sisters argue and fight all the time but you will see it will all get better with time. Ur parents love you more than you will ever know till you have your first child. You will understand that your parents would die for you without a second thought. Your parents would go insane if you were to leave. As far as ur parents liking ur sister more that just simply isn't true. Maybe they feel like she needs attention more u do. that you maybe more mature and don't require it as much as she. Maybe you should try to talk to parents and just let them know how you feel. Always remember that they love you to no end. Good Luck
2007-01-06 13:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sherman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha she said ten simple rules // Its 8 SImple Rules, and you should watch that show. Anyways, my advice is you should catch her in the act. A picture won't do, unless it's really good. I'd say go for a video of her raging on you. You might not have spy gear, but you can buy a small camera that you can attach to your blouse or something.
After you get the vid. try telling your parents things that she has done, then slowly start to convince them, then when you're sure that you've got them, then show them the video.
If that doesn't work, then start to stay away from the house as much as possible for two more years. Or at least one year, when you can get a flat or something.
2007-01-06 21:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by everything, ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel-or talk to your parents about it.
If she still keeps being rude to you, I'd talk to my school counselor about what's going on and find out how you can get your sister to just cool it and treat people nice. If your sister has things going on in her life or something I guess that's understandable-but if she treats you rude constantly for no reason, then that is wrong.
You have every right to live at home-they are your family and you only have a few more years till you can move out. If you really hate what's going on, ask your counselor for some options on how you can move in with a different family member.
Good luck and I hope I helped!
2007-01-06 20:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 daughters that do that. When I am not around one of them acts that way, and I had to face the truth, that she was different , not that sweet little angel when I was not around. It may take another to tell your parents what she does when they are not around. You know, I dont think you should leave home, unless you have another place safe to be. The best thing is to try your best to learn to love your sister. Find things that you do enjoy about her, and focus on them. Try to ignore her other behaviors. They probably communicate better with your sister, but that does not mean that they love her any more or less than you. Communication is a big part of all relationships, and maybe you should tell your parents what you have told us.
Ignore people that say dumb things, like they think your green with envy, they are just not really thinking about your situation, and apper to be making instant judgments.
Communication, with your sister and your parents. It is the key.
I lost my only sister this year. She is gone forever, and you want to always be on good terms with her. Please try to cherish the fact that you still have yours. Remember focus on her positive qualities, communicate with her, and them.
2007-01-06 21:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by fivefootnuttinhuny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 Simple Rules for Dating My Daughter watch this series and u will know what 2 do wish u luck
2007-01-06 20:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by em omar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to have the same problem with my brother and family (except for the being a #@$!% part and he looks attractive and is more intelligent). So I just shut down my feelings for them. That's what I did. But it hurts to do it. ) :
You could confront them about it.
2007-01-06 20:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Donovan W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call together a family meeting to talk about it.
2007-01-06 20:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by DRNoraSarasin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom or dad whom ever you feel comfortable with.and if they dont get it leave cuz i went through that and noway ,no way man.
2007-01-06 20:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are envious of her.Maybe you need to move out.
2007-01-06 21:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are green with envy.
2007-01-06 20:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋