Why won't he call me?

Question

Ok I re got together with this guy (we were together like 1 year ago). My friend asked him over the phone. He said yes and she told me. It has been days and he still hasn't called me. I tried calling him multipule times! I know I have the right #. When I was together with im the 1st time, we only talked on the phone like 1 time. We saw eachother in school, but now we arn't in school. What should I do?

I KNOW he likes me.

Answer 1

maybe he's scared of getting hurt again if you guys broke up (you say you WERE together 1 year ago). Perhaps you should try calling him and leave a message telling him how you feel (but don't go overboard - just enough to tempt him so he will call you back if he's interested in you, once he knows how you feel).

If that doesn't work, date other guys and make sure he hears about it - play hard to get - and he'll come running for you...!!

Answer 2

Hard to say.

First I'd say relax. You have to always respect yourself first in relationships no matter what you do. Accept in your mind that it may or may not work out and that you will go forward no matter what.

Now, obviously you had something for a year. That's something. Sit back and think how many ways you can find out his number?

Phone books, common friends, etc? Try.

Once you actually get the number. Call him ONCE. Don't call him alot. The call should be like this, "hey, long time no hear. I'd would be really nice to get together for dinner sometime next week. What do you think. It would be nice to hear from you either way. Drop me a line. Bye." SOUND HAPPY.

If he does not call back, suck it in, and move on. It sucks but ther e is no point making a guy think of you as an "obligation". If he wants you, some effort better come on his part too. You don't have that standard, you will sometimes get hurt.

Why does he not call you? He could have lost your number too. You may not be on his mind. He may be really really busy. He could even sadly be with somebody. if a year passed thasts very likely


I hope it works out.

Answer 3

Stop calling him. If he wants to speak to you or wants to be a part of your life he will call you. I know that it hurts right now but you must let him call. If he does not call you then you were not meant to be with him and there is someone else out there who may be better suited with you. But please stop calling. The more you call him, the more he will run away from you. Guys are just like that.

All the Best!

Answer 4

What you really should do is to stop calling. If he was interested he would have answered your calls and he would be calling you. Don't chase a guy who's not interested... I'm sure there are others who are interested and those would be much more fun to "chase".

Answer 5

if he really likes u he should come over to meet u somewhere n not merely thru phone in order to show his honesty.don't tell me he got no time to see u?if so u r better leaving him n forget everything.

best wishes nhappy new year.

Answer 6

Girl, stop calling. He will begin to think that you are a stalker. Let me make the next move. If he doesn't, move on.

Answer 7

Drop it. He's not interested! Don't be a stalker. A guy, if interested, WILL call you. Move on, and find a different guy.

Answer 8

I'm sorry. I don't think he's interested. Try to move on and find someone else

Answer 9

MOVE ON... if he wanted to contact u he would... Dont give him the benefit of knowin he got u sprung...
gurl forget him... u pro can do better anyway

~*~CHELLEY~*~

Answer 10

I'm sorry but your question isn't very clear at all? Can you read it yourself and see if it makes sense to you.