Please Any One Help? I beg you?
Please give me encouragement.
I am decided to break up with my bf but every time he is there, I feel I can’t do it.
He is cheating on me every night, he is with different girl, and he’s with me during day but night he is with someone else. I keep accepting because I am truly in love with him. And I trust his word that I’m special and he cares for me.
I’m blinded because I truly love him.
But it hurts every night when midnight comes I know he pick ups a girl and he is with someone else.
Maybe he doesn’t care, but why is he doing that to me.
I want to break up with him but I want an advice, I want to make my mind decided. Finally. Can you help me,
I know I sound like a fool… but I am so in love I can’t think straight.
2007-01-06 12:29:37 · 10 answers · asked by Princess Shanaia H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you have going on is that your heart still loves him, but your brain knows he doesn't respect you. The next time you see him, you have to end it with him. After that, I suggest not talking to him at all and focusing on healing your broken heart. Also look for a support group (www.breakupsurvivor.com is a good one), because it's always nice to have a shoulder to lean on. Good luck.
2007-01-06 12:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, none of us can force you to do this. This is something that you're going to have to do on your own. I think that you can think far more clearer then you've given yourself credit for, as you've just said in your post that you know he is cheating on you and that you have decided to break up with him.
The encouragement I can give you is that you most certainly do deserve better then him - a lot better. And also... you will most certainly find a better man then him too (a man that will truly love you and NOT cheat on you) ... IF .... you make the tough decision to say good-bye to him and let him go. And it really shouldn't be that tough of a decision either - he is CHEATING on you!
You'll be so much better off without him gal.... just let him go.... your heart will thank-you for it later.
2007-01-06 20:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE U R NOT IN LOVE U R PROBABLY SO INFATUATED THAT U THINK U R IN LOVE BECAUSE NO FEMALE SHOULD HAVE 2 DEAL WITH A MAN CHEATING ON HER. WHAT IS WRONG WITH U, U R GIVING HIM THE RIGHTS 2 CHEAT ON U. WAKE UP AND LET HIM GO. U R PROBABLY VERY SMART AND PRETTY. U R WAISTING UR TIME WITH HIM. HOW WOULD HE LIKE IT IF U CHEATED ON HIM. THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE 4 EVERYONE AND TRUST ME UR PRINCE CHARMING IS WAITING BUT I CAN TELL U THIS MUCH IT'S NOT HIM. JUST TELL HIM U DO NOT FEEL LIKE BEING HIS PUPPET ANYMORE AND THAT U DON'T WANT 2 B WITH HIM. BE HONEST WITH HIM AND TELL HIM EXACTLY HOW U FEEL. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-06 20:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a hard and tuff situation just know before you do anything that he is defanitlly cheating on u make sure u see it from ur own eyes thennn break up with him as hard as it may be you need to!
2007-01-06 20:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babe, only u can help urself..no one can change your perspectives and ur feeling about him,... you just have to be strong and have some self respect to realize that this man is just using you and treating you like a thrash...so it's up to if you want to be strong and break it off or you want to be a property of his forever...
2007-01-06 20:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by cheeryviola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how you know he is seeing someone else at midnight! Why don't you talk to him about this?
2007-01-06 20:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bud B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's a decision u need to make because we dont love him u do always remember u have to make yourself happy first because no one else is if he is hurting u please think about yourself first because theres a lot of diseases that u cant get rid of
2007-01-06 20:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first get all his **** put in a trash bag sit it outside and change the locks and then let him know that you are tired of his **** and you don't need him anymore
2007-01-06 22:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it or break up with him, just do it before it goes to far
2007-01-06 20:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha u a mug u getting played and LOVING IT
2007-01-06 20:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by ROFLies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋