there are some guys out there that like me, but i just don't believe in relationships. i always feel as if they're stressful and a waste of time. am i weird like that?
2007-01-06 11:56:45 · 16 answers · asked by i like turtles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha i'm 15 by the way. maybe i just have a long way to go, but still i just don't believe in them.
2007-01-06 12:24:06 · update #1
You don't say how old you are........but you sound like one smart cookie to me!! I mean...sounds like you really have a good head on those shoulders of yours. Don't be in any hurry to settle down...there is plenty of time for that. And yes, relationships can be stressful. Spare yourself if that is what you want.
2007-01-06 12:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by TexasRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only one. I'm a guy, and I'm feeling a bit out of the game for now. And no, I'm not going to blame the women, either, as some here may have blamed men.
For your own question, I would say, no, you are not weird, perhaps just going thru a phase. Rest up and build up your inner strength. Later on when a good person comes along, maybe you will be willing to give it another try. At any rate, just do what feels right for you, as long as you're not hurting anyone or yourself.
2007-01-06 20:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not lame. You are a strong, independant young woman! I am 30, and I had 1 boyfriend in my life 10 years ago. After that ended 10 years ago, I've been happily single. I'm a career woman with my own business, and my business is very sucessful.
Relationships just distract women and waste their time, energy and self esteem. I am very attractive and I have no problem attracting men, I just refuse to have a "relationship" until I'm actually ready to get married. And I wont get married until I am financially independant and able to take care of myself for the rest of my life. And plus I want to travel the world first and have so much fun. Look at all these women on Yahoo Questions crying about their boyfriends and husbands--girl please, that's for the birds.
2007-01-06 20:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not weird. Thats just something you believe in. I would have to say that relationships are stressful but i wouldnt say they are wasteful. But to each its own
2007-01-06 20:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by cutie_192000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not wierd, but after a while you're going to want to get into a relationship or atleast think about it more than often then before you know it, you're scared to death because you just found yourself in one. Just be careful, cause if you do get in one and it ends badly while you're going through this stage then it will really I MEAN REALLY discourage you in the future but hopefully it won't whenever you do get in one if you decide to, hope this is helpful.
2007-01-06 20:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by mjshrapnel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the same way, but the answer is U R NOT WEIRD!... whn i had anxieties of tht sort... i freaked out i thought there was something wrong w/me.. but all u hav to do,is sit down n decide on thngs tht u want n u dont want.... wht u probably want is just a nice, cool n not dominant guy to hang out w/. who is little more than a frnd!........... but who is not asking u for commitment, wants an open relationship, gives u all ur space/freedom.. but is still going out w/u.. basically it kinda sounds like a selfish thng to do.. but if u both agree to do tht.. thn .. thts also a sort of relationship.. n is something like wht u r looking for!........... well, to answer ur question, u probably r one of those ppl who go w/the natural instinct.. u dont think of a "relationship" to exist.. but whn u meet someone u will naturally feel the stuff someone feels in a relationship...........u wud start accepting thm!........till thn put a smile on.. bcoz u r LIVING ur LIFE :)
2007-01-06 20:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not weird at all. Keep it light, and date around. Check out lots of guys and lots of options. Of course, there's a good chance that you'll be labled a "slut", but at least you won't be in a stressful relationship. More power to ya.
2007-01-06 20:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by neilfan22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm with ya girl!!! Putting a title of "relationship" on something totally changes the ball game.
2007-01-06 19:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by spotted_moofers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a matter of fact, I don't think you are weird. I have the exact same opinion in regards to being in a relationship...I'd much rather date and keep things light and casual. :-)
2007-01-06 19:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by cherripye99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not weird. That's just how you feel. Try a relatioship out to see how it goes and hopefully it will go wonderful. Don't be scared to try new things with new people, that's how you find true love.
2007-01-06 20:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋