I think that it is goofy, and that if I did love someone, then everyone would probably laugh at me, and when I think everyone is laughing at me, I hurt people. Plus I have never asked a girl out. I didn't because I knew I would get rejected. I am not very good looking, and I have a Hitler-like personality, and I am paranoid, so I wouldn't trust any girl. I would prefer to live alone, and not have to deal with little kids or someone else's problems. I am serious. I like to be alone, and I don't care about dying alone or seeing my friends with little kids when I'm 60.
2007-01-06 11:55:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus, I don't really deserve love.
2007-01-06 11:56:09 · update #1
The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.
Pearl S. Buck
2007-01-06 11:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Noble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem bitter about love. Maybe you haven't been able to find the right person. Or maybe there is something about your personality that is keeping girls away. When you figure out what it is and you better yourself you will find the right person and fall in love and it will feel like heaven. When that person bares your children and you take a look at your family and think "wow this is mine" you will immediately become tearful and wish nothing more than the family you have.
Try to become close with a female coworker and ask them if there are ways you can improve yourself, maybe there are certain things you can change that will make your life more fulfilling and satisfying - yes and that will include loving someone.
Good luck.
2007-01-06 12:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self loathing right now. Everyone deserves love of some type, but if you feel you don't need it or deserve it, maybe you don't. Only self centred people laugh at people in love, or assholes. I believe people enjoy the feelings and things that happen when they are in love, I know I do. Just because you are paranoid doesn't mean you will never trust anyone. Your trusting strangers to answer your question, so there's my point. Maybe your a sociopath.
2007-01-06 12:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:'( This is so sad... You give me the feeling that you only want to believe these things about yourself, and act as you do because you have a really low self esteem or you are simply afraid of opening up to other people... And in the case you trully are the way you say you are, you really really have a problem... Cause you are bound to stay alone at some point of your life or another... And then you will know real pain...
As i said i really feel sad now... Noone deserves to be alone... And noone can say he is not worthy to be loved....
2007-01-06 12:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by kaustikos1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Get some more confidence
2) How old are you? If you aren't above 12, you cant love or care for anyone because you are just too dang young.
3) People don't laugh at you in the real world for loving someone. This only happens in elementary school and early middle school.
2007-01-06 11:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people want to find love, because love gives them the feeling of being eternally wanted and comforted. When i'm with the guy i love i feel so safe and happy and warm and secure. i feel like nothing could harm me at the moment, even if he's just standing behind me. love lets you open your heart to someone close who can understand and accept you for who you are. that person would never judge you or expect you to be someone your not. sure, i admit that love is dangerous, but once you pass the danger...everything is perfect. you would never feel alone with the person you love opposed to being in a room with people you like and feeling like something's missing. if u ever find someone who loves you, she wouldnt care about your hitler-like personality or your looks. she would care about who you really are and value you for that
2007-01-06 12:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by lalalua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn boy.loosen up.no wonder u might get rejected from girls..not to be mean.but get a heart or somthing.and yeah i know no u prob want to come kill the computer.but sorry.i just want to help.u should lighten up.have fun with life.meet girls.LOVE!..its the best thing in the world.when u find someone..u will feel it.trust me.
2007-01-06 12:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very harsh on yourself. to love someone is having a best friend to give all your trust to. and it's goofy to love someone becuase your vulnerable and you can get really hurt because you put your guard down, but there is still that chance that you will find it. risky buisness...
2007-01-06 12:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by because7_8_9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound JUST like my friend, he had the same beliefs as you, until he found his current gf. Atleast keep an openmind until youve experienced love.
2007-01-06 11:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw thats sad to hear.. i think if you want to be loved, you need to love someone.. but really, you can't help it if you love someone. well.. as long as you do what makes you happy, then good for you. if not.. change something. [;
2007-01-06 11:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋