how much older should the girl be than the boy?

Answer 1

There are no rules. But it's more often the case that the boy is older than the girl

Answer 2

Usually guy should be older. I know this is conservative. I came from a liberal family so I started with the idea that the stupid conservative rules don't matter. Sadly, life experience has shown me that often (never always) there is some reason for the consertive approach.


At young age it does not matter and since girls mature faster it seems stupid. You get older its make difference cos of child bearing age concerns and stuff. Guys value looks more than anything and the guy is flight risk in some cases if wife too much older. Still EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT. My aunt was 8 years older than my uncle. They have one kid and are mostly happily married. There marriage difficulties related to all the conservative values they pretended not to have; i.e., she made MORE money than him and she caught him in a porn magazine phase. That said, they have worked out there differences and mostly have a pretty GREAT marriage.

In general too, most women I know, want the GUY to be as if not MORE successful than her. Most guys want the girl to be at least "passibly good looking". I know exceptions to these rules but they prove the rule.

Still once you get beyond a certain age, mabye you don't care any more. Not sure. Depends what one wants in a relationship.

Number of years. I think, honestly less than 5 years in general but it really depends on the couple.

Sitll, always take these things with grain of salt. You have to know what you WANT with an eye to what you WILL WANT in the future.

Answer 3

not too much,boys,generally mature much slower than girls.A 15 year old girl is about as mature as a 17 or 18 year old boy maybe even older!!guys tend to act like little boys even up to their twenties!Im not saying a girl should date a much older boy ecpecially if she is still a minor that would be wrong and illegal.its called stat rape! but anyways a younger boy with an older girl is exactly that,guys are just not emotionaly mature until they're older.This is all info I've ead about and have also noticed growing up.

Answer 4

no more than 5 or 6 years

Answer 5

I am a girl so I would say a year or less younger because I know what it's like and girls want to have older sexier men for them.

Answer 6

the boy should be older

Answer 7

alot older is a little strange

i dont know why it is but thats how it always has been lol

Answer 8

as long as both people are over 18 age does not matter, as long as you love each other and are willing to get some ridicule from insensitive people

Answer 9

it depends on a number of things.The girl dont have to be older its your choice.

Answer 10

I t doesnt matter as long as they are both of legal age