im 12 and i weight 113 pounds all my frends say im not fat but i think i am is it any of their bissness??
2007-01-06 11:53:27 · 14 answers · asked by gothic_chick753 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
ok im not really 113 im way less but idc
2007-01-06 12:00:10 · update #1
If you told them that you think you are fat, it became their business. And you aren't fat.
And, umm, how is it destructive to a person's self-esteem if they are told that a perceived flaw is non-existant?
2007-01-06 12:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're okay with who you are, then your friends' opinions shouldn't matter. However, if you're not, then look into joining a gym, going running, or becoming active in an after-school sport or activity. At age 12, you should hardly be concerned about how you look, as many changes are going to happen to your body over time.
The end of middle school and beginning of high school are awkward phases, but after that, everything is smooth. Just stay confident in yourself and participate in things you enjoy.
By the way, you are not fat in the least.
EDIT: I just noticed that you said you're "way less" than 113, which, if anything, is possibly UNDERweight. Talk to a parent or a counselor about your insecurities and see what they can do to help you.
2007-01-06 20:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kylonaut 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HEY GOTH CHICK,
you sound like you want to kick someone's as*.
depending on how tall you are i do not think 113lbs. is FAT. unless you are 4 foot nothing.
oh, yeah and tink is not a word==think
and bissness is spelled business.OK??
2007-01-06 19:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness #1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That does not sound overweight but at 12, you are subject to any type of comment from anyone for what ever reason but I hae always taugght my daughter that people who judge or put other people down have issues with themselves so that is why they are trying to knock you down. Just let it roll off your back, that is NOT overweight!
2007-01-06 19:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by mrssainsarg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just trying to make you encouraged. After all, until you get up to 180 lbs you have no chance of making the high school football team. Good luck with it though!
2007-01-06 20:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by ergonomia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel uncomfortable with your weight? Talk it over with your parents or a teacher at school if you're not comfortable and they can help you decide what to do.
Oh, and get new 'friends'. They are in a dangerous position of destroying your self esteem, knocking you down to feel better about themselves.
2007-01-06 19:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by DragonWrites the Fire Faery 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel that you are fat ask your mom to take you to the Doc and see how healthy you are If you are happy don't worry about it!
2007-01-06 19:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by heartache53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hunting for attention and get a self esteem! No its not their buisness
2007-01-06 19:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all.
If you think you are fat, join a sports team at school.
2007-01-06 19:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is there business when you make it there business. If you talk it over with them, this is giving them permission for it to be there business.
2007-01-06 20:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋