MY BOYFRIEND CHEATED ON ME WITH MY BEST FRIEND!!!!!!!!!! i walked in on them doin "it" in his bedroom and i broke up with him on the spot, but he won't leave me alone!! he keeps calling me and sending me flowers and saying sorry on text messages. HOW CAN I GET HIM TO LEAVE ME ALONE?
2007-01-06 11:51:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore all his calls, don't even pick up to say "leave me alone" just let him get the hint. As far as the flowers go, refuse them and have them sent back (clear message). Eventually he will give up. Whatever you do DON'T find a new guy, this will only cause unnecessary drama. Chances are he will try to confront the new guy or even confront you.
Just take it one day at a time, breathe easier, and look towards "real" friends and family for support.
2007-01-06 12:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 05:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has got to hurt...I'm so sorry you have to feel that pain. I went through it a few days ago. I walked in on my wife with another Man. She has got all her stuff out of the House. I told her I don't want her no more. The fmaily is involved now and it is one big mess. We've been married 25 years.
I am going through alot right now, I feel okay, becasue better now than later.
So I can sympathize with you.
I posted the affair on answers when it happened. You can read the answers what people said and told me what I should do.
The guy showed up at my house today and get this he wanted to apologize because he said my wife said we were seperated. I talk with him at the door and then he left.
He is a very lucky Man to be alive. It was horrible what happened.
I still feel pain, but I am dealing with it.
2007-01-06 12:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and tell them your being stalked by an ex and that you really want him to leave you alone. Then block his number from your cell phone and block him from your messenger.
But knowing you...(I mean women in general) he'll say I love you baby it will never happen again and you'll go back to him. All women take back the asshole...Its how it goes.
But you desever better then to be treated like that. If you wanna chat contact me we can talk about things...I hope I could help ya.
2007-01-06 11:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you havent replied to him or told him so .. go up to him, stare at him straight in his face.. and tell him you no longer care about how sorry he is and you wish that he would stop texting you and sending you flowers and that you no longer care for him.. and tell him you WANT him to stop calling you. then just walk away.. and if he doesnt stop after that.. i would just go up to him and slap him. haha but no.. if you keep ignoring his calls & stuff.. eventually he'll stop.
same thing with my ex. he chased me for over a year and now he's finally stopped. takes time. (= in the meanwhile, go out & party. have fun with your life & dont waste a minute of it. ;]
2007-01-06 11:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him hes an a**hole and he can go find someone else to cheat on, or you can listen to carrie underwoods song "Before he cheats" and mess his car up.. what a jerk for cheating on you hes probably like "I got caught ****" and now he know that hell never get another girl like you and he really f****d up especially with your whore ex bestfriend!! Move on from the both of them!
2007-01-06 11:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by abella_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are either going to call the police or get a restraining order. Talk to him once, but don't let him sweet talk you into getting back together. But maybe you should talk to him, but then again, dont' let him try to get back together with you. He's a backstabber.
2007-01-06 11:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by peaceoutxcubscout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go screw himself. he was a jerk and cheated on you. he messed up and needs to realize that you don't want to be with him....you should question the loyalty of your best friend too. Change your cell phone number.
2007-01-06 11:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with one of his best buds and tell him you were just dating him because you felt sorry for him.
2007-01-06 11:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by ~dreamvette~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok chica..one thing jou should do is find another guy..dat definatley shut that cheating' chazzer up.
2007-01-06 11:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋