We dated for more than 10 months, and we split up and start seeing each other again, and my hearrt it's in million pieces.
2007-01-06 11:48:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anderson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've given your heart to someone and he has broken it. What to do? Take a breath. You're going to be fine.
When you fall in love your brain produces a chemical called Oxytocin. It is a hormone that produces the bonding and feelings associated with love. When you touch... the brain makes oxytocin. Even when you see each other... the brain makes more oxytocin. You can't help it. But it is normal. You've been together for 10 months, it will take a while before the brain knows to shut down the oxytocin production.
You're probably wondering what you did wrong.. What could you have done to prevent this?? However no reason will satisfy you. The truth is his brain is on a different planet, and his oxytocin production has shut down a long time ago.
What to do??? Just stop seeing him.. Get involved with other friends. Develop new relationships. Get busy. For more information on oxytoxin see:
http://www.oxytocin.org/oxytoc/index.html
2007-01-06 12:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't change the way you feel why should you be able to change the way someone else feels. The best thing to do is to accept a situation for what it is and try to make a better situation possible. The best methods are being open, being honest, and being proactive. Things don't get better on thier own. People make them better.
2007-01-06 19:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by P nut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i no bout the feeling like ur heart stop hurting cuz i just got hurt but im sure if u love this person so much that this person luv u as well just give it time ur partner will *** around
2007-01-06 19:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that. my heart is pieced back together with glue, but none the less it's still broken. everything takes time and effort. it hurts but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, good luck.
2007-01-06 19:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by because7_8_9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i feel the same sometimes but if you split life goes on or just tell her or him if your a girl lol
2007-01-06 19:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time....
2007-01-06 19:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋