I am 28 from croatia, I met this 31 yr old guy and it was a blind date, we got close on the phone and really shared alot of stories feelings etc... we met, he was cute and really well maintainedm, took a ton of interest in me and really had alot of questions about my country and even was trying to learn my language. I went out a few days later met a guy at a bar, had sex and was in a realtionship. the 1st guy asked me out and after i blew him off he asked why ? I told him what happened. He sounded so hurt cause heis voice changed suddenly, he then thanked me for telling him and I never heard back from him. the other guy went bad, only based on sex and he does not take the interest in me the 1st guy did ...really hanging on everyword in conversation etc..I want to apologize and ask the 1st guy out but I have no idea what he will say, or react please tell me what you think ?
2007-01-06 11:42:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with the first guy as you were initially and apologize for being such a jerk. He might forgive you, might not. If not, you're no worse off than you are now.
2007-01-06 11:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by calebandnoahsma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the first guy and state that you would like to get together again some time. If he is interested to take the risk, all is well. If he is not interested, then move on with the knowledge that you made the effort and may have made a mistake that you don't want to repeat again. Sex is a form of communication that should match a mature relationship, and the 1st guy likely feels you did not follow that code of effects with gentleman #2.
2007-01-06 11:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by jctrib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the guy up. That's the one sure way to find out, at least
this way you won't be wondering months later, I wonder what
he would have said if only I called. A bar isn't really a great place to meet someone anyway. whatever your dating plans
try to avoid the bedroom, and give the relationship a chance
to grow. Love is lovely Let It Grow!
2007-01-06 12:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he's still hurt maybe he is gonna reject you at fist time you get touch with him but if he was really interested in you, he'll understand what you are trying to do. Why don't you? Try it! take the risk for him and specially for You, if you think you're gonna feel better
doing that. I think he deserve it but take care of yourself because we don't know what could happen? Just be prepared for all that can happen. If your prepared You will manage the situation, ok.
Good Luck! it can be an interesting experience for you.
Just do it!
2007-01-06 12:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Edgar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you went out with the 2nd guy, the 1st guy probably thought you weren't as interested in him as he originally thought. Sorry to say that it seems unlikely he.would give you a chance -although you didn't date the 1st guy so it's not effectively cheating, he probably feels you weren't serious about him in the 1st place.
2007-01-06 11:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by bjka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know nothing. absolutely nothing! why? because you lack character and you are too old to change. get thee to a nunnery you skanky cold subhuman. croations, serbian, eskimoe or south sea islander -- it doesn't matter. the thing is you know. that is what bothers me. you are a little gold digger and a wanna be ho. you could change but probably not. find it in a church or you will continue to slide down the fiery path to hell! into a sea of molten brimstone and demons tearing at your flesh. yet, you won't die. it will just continue for eternity. may god forgive you.
2007-01-06 11:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm wow well u messed up hopefully hes really forgiving and just ask him everyone deserves a second chance and even if u cant get into bf gf status u can always build ur base back up
2007-01-06 11:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get the nice guy back. He sounds like a good one don`t let him go.
2007-01-06 11:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 04:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by mosesjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like you were honest with him the first time, be honest and tell him the truth. he might not want you back but it is worth the try
2007-01-06 11:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by webby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋