ok im with my boyfriend for a year and a half, but before him i went out with a guy for a few months. and this gut i used to date, well we were best friends up untill he got me pregnant, my new bf knows i was pregnant but doesnt know the father, i had a mis-carraige and that was almost two years ago
now my ex is back in my life (after he ran once he found out i was pregnant and continuously denied it was him). he has met my boyfriend but says he wants me and since my boyfriend is in the navy and is away a lot, i seem to have my ex banging on my door saying he wants to see his baby (when he knows about the mis-carraige) i made a big mistake of opening the door lastnight when he knocked and he forced himself on me i got him out of the house once i could.
im afraid he will come back? should i ring my boyfriend and ask him to come home?
Help!!!
2007-01-06 11:34:00 · 15 answers · asked by sexyeyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lemme tell jou something chica. Last time some stupid maricones' busted into MY house? I ******' blew them cocka-roaches away. I took em all to hell ya hear? Next time that cabron' ******' come to your door, jou have something ready for that stupid chazzer!
2007-01-06 11:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First unfortunately if your current bf is in the Navy he just can't come home. THere are rules that allow for emergency leave and this is not one. Those rules apply to immediate family and girlfriends ar not considered immediate family. Second what do you men he forced himself on you? Did he rape you? What are you waiting for girl call the police and report the rape. Report the harrassement. Report report report. Can you move or go stay with friends until the current comes back? Do you own your home or can you move. If so move. If I was the current bf and your opened the door to an old bf I would be suspicious of your story. Second if you said he forced himself on you after you opened the door and there was no police report the doubts would really settle in. Regardless of what he thinks. Go to the police.
2007-01-06 11:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by cece 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not ask your boyfriend to come home. The next time the ex comes knocking on the door tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him there and your boyfriend not. (Plus, how would your b/f feel if he knew your ex was coming over?) If this guy still forces himself in or does anything that makes you feel really uncomfortable, see how fast you can call 911. Don't let this guy make you feel uncomfortable or allow him to cause in problems with your current relationship.
2007-01-06 11:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your bf is in the Navy, he cant just come home, silly girl! And dont burden him with this kind of thing while hes gone, you will get him all frustrated over the situation, knowing he cant do anything about it. Call the cops on the ex, if hes forcing himself into your home, tell him you are not interested.......thats BS!
2007-01-06 11:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Katz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to call the police the next time he shows up at your door! Don't tell your boyfriend until after you have it all squared away with the police and get a restraining order.
2007-01-06 11:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by MW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say he forced himself on you, do you mean rape? If so, you must call the police and get a restriction order on him. I do think it's important too to tell your boyfriend what has happened as honesty is always best policy. I know it will be hard to do but I think you really should.
Best wishes.
2007-01-06 11:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police or the womens protective services... This ex sounds like one of those notorious "bad guys" who are up to no good. Don't let him in your house because there's a high chance that you could get seriously hurt.
2007-01-06 11:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by make love not war 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your Ex forced himself upon you you should press charges against him for sexual assault. Your Ex is dangerous, get a restraining order against him ASAP and call the police whenever he comes near your home or near you. call information for a domestic violence hotline or battered women's support group or rape relief group in your area and get some support from people who know how to help you stay safe.
2007-01-06 11:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by bestfriendthemom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
The next time he comes to the door, knocking and yelling, call the police. You can take control of this situation, and you should.
Namaste,
--Tom
2007-01-06 11:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's assault girl. What the heck are you waiting for? The next time could be worse. Call the police. And yes, I think your boyfriend should know what happenend.
2007-01-06 11:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your bf is out at sea he cant come home until his orders tell yo or until he is on leave. so asking him to come home would only make things harder on him. the 1st thing you should do is call the police.
2007-01-06 11:42:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋